I'm sorry Lost, I know how that feels. Its not a good feeling at all, but remember it is also in your hands as well. Sometime, you have to push people a little. We can't always sit back and wait for others to come around. They might just be sitting for us, and we would both miss each other. I did and completely missed that opportunity because I couldn't say how I felt. We cannot assume all men are a like, and approach the matter that way. Its not fair to them. Also, when they do give these signals, we have to be respectful of them as well. I think a lot of women miss that part, because they are either too scared to do anything, unwillingly hurt them because it just easy to ignore then to face, or simply like the attention.
Either way, I do wish you the best in this, and I hope you are more successful then I was.

If anything, I really believe you deserve this.