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Deal-breakers

Blank123

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Christian but doesn't hold to same core doctrines I do
Doesn't want children
No interest in taking care of himself
Abusive or neglectful
Arrogant/self-righteous
extreme interest in politics

Oh and I forgot clingy. I love togetherness when I'm in love with someone, but invading my personal space and pushing for a codependant relationship before there's a friendship there is a good way to ensure that we'll never even make it to friendship let alone anything else.

Also.
Drug users and alcoholics need not apply.
 
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jess9450

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Oh and I forgot clingy. I love togetherness when I'm in love with someone, but invading my personal space and pushing for a codependant relationship before there's a friendship there is a good way to ensure that we'll never even make it to friendship let alone anything else.

Also.
Drug users and alcoholics need not apply.

I agree. I've been on dates where the guy seems so eager to jump into a relationship before we are even friends. It's a big turn off for me, plus I think it's important to really get to know someone and feel comfortable with them before letting romantic feelings develop.
 
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NoodlesNoodlesNoodles

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Deal breakers include:

Non-Christian (hard one to stick to sometimes)
Uncommunicative
Overtly selfish
I want to put "huge pet lover" but don't think Christ would smile on that. =)


Deal-breakers do not include:

Criminal past
Sexual past or diseases
Substance abuse troubles
Disfigurement


Man, ya'll are a tough crowd. ;)
 
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ImperatorWall

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I hate my cat heaps. Although he's been pretty good about leaving them in the litter box now that he's a few months old.

Head asplode.

Is the cat named heaps?

Do you hate him heaps? How much is a heap?

Does he leave heaps in the litterbox? If not, who or what is "them?"
 
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ImperatorWall

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asplode3.gif
 
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Im_A

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Other deal-breakers

-Transsexuals
-Overweight
-Too short
-Prudish

Yea...I forgot about transsexual...not something I think about that much.

Bisexual and prefer females is another big deal breaker for me. Simply because I don't have any homosexuality in my sexuality.
 
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