i came across this thread being subscribed to the singles forums. Dating online is very hard. You only know what the person tells you, what you think they are, and vice versa. From my experience, even if dating online, it is very important to get to know the person in person. You know it is hard to test fruits online except I think you can pray and have others pray, and then see how the person prays and speaks of the Word. There are even people posing as pastors online that are not. On one singles site a guy told me he views other guys profiles in order to make his look better, which tells me that some people copy other profiles to deceive people. Never let emotions control or desires to get in the way. I don't just mean sin. Foundation needs to be good, and it is good to be thinking clearly. Otherwise somebody can get hurt easily.