I am sad for you that you had to experience that type of accusation.
Being accused or suspected of being dishonest or untruthful is something that an honest person should not have to defend. This situation is not such a tragic event though, there are so many other types of accusations that are not even comparable to simply being accused of falsifying one's identity or gender.
But still, this is something that, to me personally would feel like someone is questioning my character or my morality. I hope that you can overcome this I understand completely why you have a female avatar on your profile.
I think that females / women are so awesome, I just love being around women and talking to them and hearing their wisdom that is given in a voice so kind and gentle. I really like your avatar.
I hope you can get to feeling better.
