Couple questions for the guys...

[Balugon]

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Now back to your regularly scheduled discussion.

 

[white dove]

How is it different from when women find a guy playing with kids (ooo maybe HIS kids) attractive? Okay, guys don't get pregnant but I think that's a pretty equal comparison to the baby stroller thing. But still, pregnant women DO glow and it's very attractive. I wouldn't be surprised if they exude pheremones that attract males within 100 yards either.

Sometimes, I'll see a man who is either a really good father or a really good husband and find myself attractive to the traits these men possess. It helps cement in my heart what I'm looking for in a mate and ultimately, a husband. It gives me hope that men like that do still exist.

I think this thread and your intentions for it has been blown way out of proportion. I don't recall you saying anything about being sexually attracted nor lusting after some other man's wife or pregnant women, in general. You just mentioned the fact that you find pregnant women attractive - for what that means to you (as a father, no?). I could be wrong though. *shrug*




Oh, and I was joking about you having kids sometime soon, k dawg?

 

[deliciousBass]

Hehe, give me 4 more years and I'll be ready for more

 

[white dove]

Hehe, give me 4 more years and I'll be ready for more

Only 4, eh?


I give myself 7 until I'm ready to procreate.


*I'm also giving the world 7yrs to prepare for it, too.

 

[~Beauty_from_Pain~]

You know, you can be attractive to people besides your significant other. It's a good thing. So when he leaves you after 20 years of marriage, you can move on to someone better
I don't even think of the kid when I look at them... kinda weird.. I can see why that would be unattractive though. I would prefer not to raise somebody else's kid either but you never know where life will take you.

Wow. That's really pesimistic. I hope you are joking.

And there's nothing wrong with being attracted to other people, that happens. That's not what I was saying. I just don't get the attraction to another man's wife who is carrying his child. I think that guys with their kids can look cute as a "father" but I never find myself drooling over them or wishing they were wearing tight pants or not have a shirt on. That's just kind of an awkard thought....and to entertain any thoughts over a married person is not right whatsover.

 

[Beauty4Ashes]

when I see a man playing with or taking care of a baby, especially carring them in one of those body wrap carrying thingys or on their back I totally swoon

 

[deliciousBass]

Wow. That's really pesimistic. I hope you are joking.

I hope I am too.

And there's nothing wrong with being attracted to other people, that happens. That's not what I was saying. I just don't get the attraction to another man's wife who is carrying his child. I think that guys with their kids can look cute as a "father" but I never find myself drooling over them or wishing they were wearing tight pants or not have a shirt on. That's just kind of an awkard thought....and to entertain any thoughts over a married person is not right whatsover.

You know... I do see hot momma's walking around that don't have a ring on. I don't like to look at married folks either but the ring is not the first thing that draws my attention. I am sure even someone such as yourself has mistakenly checked out a married or taken person before. We're only human, after all.