As stated above, both Calvinism and Arminian agree that man has a "free-will". Where the difference lies is in the belief on Total Depravity.
Calvinism: Man is totally depraved. His will is enslaved to sin. Or as Paul put it: "ye were the servants of sin," (cf. Rom. 6:17) Prior to salvation, we sin because it is our will to sin. (cf. "then may ye also do good, that are accustomed to do evil. -Jer. 13:23)
Arminianism, on the other hand teaches that the fall only "fractured' mans will. Arminianism teaches:
"Each sinner possesses a free will, and his eternal destiny depends on how he uses it. Man's freedom consists of his ability to choose good over evil in spiritual matters; his will is not enslaved to his sinful nature. The sinner has the power to either cooperate with God's Spirit and be regenerated or resist God's grace and perish."
Nearly everything in Arminanism hinges on man, not God.
It is mans free will that accepts or rejects God's grace.
Arminianism also teaches that based upon mans free will to accept or reject, is the basis of election.
Like I said, where Arminianism and Calvinism differ, separate are on God's Sovereignty and Free will.
God Bless
Till all are one.
Can we agree that not
all “Calvinist” agree on how to define: “God's Sovereignty”, “free will” and “totally depraved”?
Can we also agree not
all “Arminianist” agree on how to define: “God's Sovereignty”, “free will” and “totally depraved”?
You cannot speak or defend all “Calvinist” and I cannot speak or defend all “Arminianist”?
I can defend what I believe and that is what I will do:
You say: “we sin because it is our will to sin”, so since Adam and Eve sinned God had to have given them a “will to sin”? If God did not give Adam and Eve a “will to sin” and they did sin than a sinful will is not necessary to sin? Do you feel Adam and Eve prior to sinning were much better off than yourself today, because I see my situation being the much greater and can only appreciate what they went through, which has taught me a great deal?
Answer me this: Would you prefer to be in the situation where your eternal close relationship with God was totally dependent on your personal ability to obey God (like the Garden) or in a place where your eternal close relationship with God was the result of you’re just accepting God’s grace/mercy/Love/charity/forgiveness (like you have now)?
I do believe: "Each sinner possesses a free will, and his eternal destiny depends on how he uses it”, but “sinner” is not an unborn, baby, child or mentally handy capped person, but a mature adult. Man’s free will does not allow the mature adult to keep from ever sinning even for a short time, but any one sin at one time could have been avoided by man, so that makes man responsible for every sin he did.
I already explained the free will choice sinful man is making and it is “deserving” of nothing:
We know sinful man does not yet have Godly type Love, so would act selfishly (worthlessly). Yet even a selfish act can allow God shower man with blessings behind his imagination and that is similar to what happened with the Prodigal son:
The prodigal son was brought to his senses by his terrible situation
he got himself into. At that moment in the pigsty he could have been macho, taken the punishment he fully deserved, paid the piper, not thought of bothering his father again, and starved to death in the pigsty. But the young son wimped out, gave up on self, and surrendered. He left for purely selfish reasons (to at least have some kind of life and survive). He is not going to bring honor to the family by returning (the older brother seems aware of that) and that is not listed as his motive. All the glory and honor goes to the father.
“Total Depravity” means you cannot do something noble, righteous, deserving of praise, with Godly type Love, or selflessly, but will have a selfish motivation, yet that would not keep a totally depraved individual from humbly accept pure sacrificial charity for selfish reasons.