I was brought up Missouri Synod Lutheran and my husband was Roman Catholic. He never liked his faith so we we're occasionally attending the Lutheran church, but we didn't care for it either. We felt our small children needed to go, so we went for them. My husbands best friend married an Orthodox girl and he converted to Orthodoxy. He sent books to my husband to read. He read them and knew he had to go to an Orthodox Liturgy, but I said no because from the way he was describing this faith to me and their traditions, I didn't think this Irish girl would fit in. He was not going to go without his whole family. So about three years went by and I was still dragging him to the Lutheran church. Then my dad became ill with melanoma cancer and died very quickly. When I asked my Lutheran pastor where my dad was, he said, "your father is either sleeping until Christ comes again or since he was a good Christian man he is in heaven". My pastor's answer did not satisfy me. So I asked my husband if I could read one of his Orthodox books. He had me read, Conversations With Protestant Sectarians, by Kallistos Ware. I read this book and I can honestly say I was scared into the faith. That very next Sunday we visited the closest Orthodox church, 45 minutes from our home. We weren't there more than maybe 20 minutes and we both looked at each other and smiled. At that moment we knew we were finally home. We talked to the priest, Fr. David, and we were happy with all of his answers to our questions. We've been going to the same church for 11 years. A lot of driving back and forth, but we don't mind at all. We have never once woken up on a Sunday and not wanted to make that drive. Our children have never told us that they don't want to go to church (unless they are sick). Our son wants to be a priest and our daughter can't wait to meet an Orthodox boy who will sweep her off her feet. God has given us a very blessed life. Sometimes I wonder if I had to lose my dad to open my eyes to Orthodoxy? I believe I did! I miss my dad so much. I feel though if he wouldn't have died, I wouldn't have received the unfulfilled answers from the Lutheran pastor. So, because of that, now we have a chance at salvation. Thanks be to God!