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Christian only forums? Really?

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You do realize that most atheists were devout believers and reading the Bible in-depth was often a large part of what caused them to lose their faith, right?
I have run across this to be the case when they were locked into a certain kind of (wrong IMO) interpretation that did not leave room for exploring other interpretations, ones that have been more widely and historically understood by centuries of Christianity. It is a particular weakness (I have found) with those of a very literal (when not intended) and modern understanding - particularly among some fundamentalists and Pentecostal types) who are very faithful, but base their faith in their particular interpretation. I am actually careful what I share in these cases, because it may be better (God knows) for them to hold onto their errors as long as their faith remains strong, if they end up being shaken by the "in between" state of moving toward another kind of interpretation, the risk is that they stop halfway (being shaken) and never reestablish their understanding and faith.
 
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"If" is the conditional clause used to determine whether the criteria you put forth causes you to perceive me as your enemy. I countered the cause with a defensive statement intended to examine that criteria and my stance concerning it thereby clearing any presumed intentions on my part as actually acting within the predetermined bounds of such a label. How far do you want to go with this?

#languagefail.

If denotes: 'if' and 'not if'

If x then a, and if not x then not a.

That is all. Nothing whatever to do with enemies.
 
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You do realize that most atheists were devout believers and reading the Bible in-depth was often a large part of what caused them to lose their faith, right?

I doubt it, tbh. I would think it far more likely to be other Christians.
 
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#languagefail.

If denotes: 'if' and 'not if'

If x then a, and if not x then not a.

That is all. Nothing whatever to do with enemies.

"If you denied that my best friend existed then you are her enemy and mine"

If you want to keep going with this then I will keep defending my stance. I DON'T BELIEVE IN GOD. I AM NOT YOUR ENEMY.
 
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Good. Now stop listening here and start listening where it matters.
I've already read what you have to say. Your "new age" concept of God is interesting. But it is nothing more than ideas with no tangible proof. Thank you though.
 
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I doubt it, tbh. I would think it far more likely to be other Christians.
You may doubt it. You may be right. But I was indeed a devout believer. Go ahead and try to doubt that like a few others have already.

Edit: And yes I did study the Bible in depth and realized it's a complete work of nonsense.
 
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At first I was kind of upset about this. Then I figured Christians want a place to talk amongst themselves without interference from non believers. It makes sense. However, upon browsing the Christian only forums, I noticed there seems to be non-Christians in there as well. Or at the very least, those who struggle with the faith.

There are some very good discussions going on in those forums. But since I'm an athiest, I'm not allowed to participate. I have a lot to say and I know I could help people find answers to many of the questions they have. But you probably think that my intentions are to troll and spread propaganda.

As an ex-believer, I've studied the Bible and the Christian faith a great deal. And when I'm discussing such issues with people, I still use the Bible to quote scriptures.

I have nothing against Christians. Unless they are on the streets preaching about hell. Those are the only ones I will approach and argue with. Besides that, I do not push my views on anyone. I just love deep conversation. It's one of the reasons I joined this website. But if I'm going to be secluded from certain areas just because I don't hold the same beliefs as you, then my time here will probably be very short.

I'm not asking to be given special privileges. I'm sure your site wide rules are very effective in maintaining order in this place. Besides, if the only thing keeping me out of those forums were my spiritual orientation, I'm sure I could just make a new account and claim to be a Christian just to gain access. But I'm not going to do that. I stand where I stand and if this is the treatment I get for doing such, then it only serves to intensify my reasons to remain on that stance.

I will continue to browse the forums looking for good conversations. And if I find that the most interesting discussions are happening in places that I can not access, then as stated, I will not be a part of this website for much longer.

It is unfortunate ...
 
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You may doubt it. You may be right. But I was indeed a devout believer. Go ahead and try to doubt that like a few others have already.

Edit: And yes I did study the Bible in depth and realized it's a complete work of nonsense.

Have you considered that it may have been your interpretation that was (at least in part) the problem?

I see it every day here. Different people/denominations have their own interpretations, and when they conflict, are necessarily some of them wrong. Some make me cringe to think of them. Atheists of course have no problem taking the Bble and interpreting the Scriptures in a particular way to demonstrate all kinds of points.

The New Testament in particular was written to the Church, by the Church, recognized by the Church, and should be interpreted within the context it was received.

And because Christ is God revealed to us in the flesh, the NT, particularly the Gospels, must be the lens through which we view the Old Testament, if we don't want to risk getting a very warped view from it.

Anyway, sorry, my intent was not to lecture. I'm a teacher (among other things) so I slip into that often. ;)

Really just wanted to ask that question, since it seems to be the Bible that's troubling you. :)
 
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Have you considered that it may have been your interpretation that was (at least in part) the problem?

I see it every day here. Different people/denominations have their own interpretations, and when they conflict, are necessarily some of them wrong. Some make me cringe to think of them. Atheists of course have no problem taking the Bble and interpreting the Scriptures in a particular way to demonstrate all kinds of points.

The New Testament in particular was written to the Church, by the Church, recognized by the Church, and should be interpreted within the context it was received.

And because Christ is God revealed to us in the flesh, the NT, particularly the Gospels, must be the lens through which we view the Old Testament, if we don't want to risk getting a very warped view from it.

Anyway, sorry, my intent was not to lecture. I'm a teacher (among other things) so I slip into that often. ;)

Really just wanted to ask that question, since it seems to be the Bible that's troubling you. :)

I don't think my interpretation was the problem. For me it was the empty promises and unanswered prayers. After years of observing lack of tangible action on God's part, I simply said "well if it hasn't happened by now then it probably never will". And please don't try to counter this with Patience, God's time, God's will or the devil's confusion.

As for the church, indeed the Bible was written by it and for it. In that context, it is a great book and the perfect guidepost for running such a church as well as living your life in those times. But society is evolving and we can't keep making stuff up from the Bible to fit that. The only reason it lasted so long was because society evolved very slowly. But now we are in a total paradigm shift and the Bible can not keep up.

Now I don't think that it is atheist who interpret the Bible in a particular way to demonstrate their points. It's actually the Christian who are notorious for that. The only way we interpret it is through logic and reasoning and that alone is enough to demonstrate any point without the Bible.

As far as the risk of getting a warped view of the Bible, that is a great point. If it really was a book from a perfect god, then there would be no risk of that.

Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it. Cheers.
 
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I don't think my interpretation was the problem. For me it was the empty promises and unanswered prayers. After years of observing lack of tangible action on God's part, I simply said "well if it hasn't happened by now then it probably never will". And please don't try to counter this with Patience, God's time, God's will or the devil's confusion.

No, I actually wouldn't reply with patience, God's time, limiting His will, or the devil's confusion. Or lack of faith, which is one that angers me sometimes, since it lays further burdens on those who are suffering.

I do have an answer, but it may be a hard one to accept. Because I understand, believe me, that it seems so opposite that it can be impossible to see while you're in it, to the point of making a person bitter against God. Believe me, I've BEEN there. And I have to admit now, years later, that things turned out ok, though we may not always have that confirmed for us in this life.

The answer is that God works for the really big picture, for each of us. Eternity, not the here and now. And when that seems to go against everything our minds tell us, it's a bitter pill indeed.

I don't want to push though. No one could have told me this 10 years ago when I was going through hell on earth. And I was upset at people who tried. So please forgive me if I sound insincere, trite, or any such thing. It isn't my intent. But I'm not sure it is a thing that one person can give another. I would if I could ...

As for the church, indeed it was written by it and for it. In that context, it is a great book and the perfect guidepost for running such a church as well as living your life in those times. But society is evolving and we can't keep making stuff up from the Bible to fit that. The only reason it lasted so long was because society evolved very slowly. But now we are in a total paradigm shift and the Bible can not keep up.

Now I don't think that it is atheist who interpret the Bible in a particular way to demonstrate their points. It's actually the Christian who are notorious for that. The only way we interpret it is through logic and reasoning and that alone is enough to demonstrate any point without the Bible.

As far as the risk of getting a warped view of the Bible, that is a great point. If it really was a book from a perfect god, then there would be no risk of that.

Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it. Cheers.

As for the rest, it's mostly meta-talk if I continue. Yes, Christians do warp the Scriptures. I'm sure they don't usually intend to, but we are all broken to various degrees and sometimes act and think out of that. Scriptures even mention that they were doing that at the time of the Apostles.

If you have any desire to pursue the rest, I'll do my best. But I would say that it is using logic and reason as the only tool of understanding that limits the Scriptures. It is obvious enough that errors are easily made, because Christians themselves make them. This is why I personally think all the expository and explanatory writings from the first leaders of the ancient Church as Christianity was being established are the surest guide, but they are rarely acknowledged or known in Protestantism, and with Catholics they retain a lot, but have changed some too. So very few people become aware of it. So many voices, going in so many directions as a result, becomes overwhelming.

There I go rambling again, and you didn't ask. My apologies. :) I'm on a roll today, lol.
 
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You may doubt it. You may be right. But I was indeed a devout believer. Go ahead and try to doubt that like a few others have already.

Edit: And yes I did study the Bible in depth and realized it's a complete work of nonsense.

I was a christian most of my life. It wasnt until i investigated scripture thoroughly, that i started to have serious doubts and eventually, i could no longer reconcile the christian story, with well evidenced reaility.
 
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You may doubt it. You may be right. But I was indeed a devout believer. Go ahead and try to doubt that like a few others have already.

Edit: And yes I did study the Bible in depth and realized it's a complete work of nonsense.

To clarify; I do not doubt your devotion. What I doubted was the suggestion that the Bible puts people off faith; in my experience it is far more often other Christians who do not behave in a sufficiently graceful manner. The Bible is what it is.
 
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I've already read what you have to say. Your "new age" concept of God is interesting. But it is nothing more than ideas with no tangible proof. Thank you though.

I am not new age at all; very far from it. I am Anglo Catholic, and very liturgically traditional. And if you look you will see I asked you what kind of tangible proof you are looking for. I don't recall seeing an answer to that.
 
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To clarify; I do not doubt your devotion. What I doubted was the suggestion that the Bible puts people off faith; in my experience it is far more often other Christians who do not behave in a sufficiently graceful manner. The Bible is what it is.

Everyone has their own reasons for leaving faith beliefs. What i find telling, are studies have demonstrated, that non believers have more knowledge of religions, than most believers do. This tells me, many non believers, have invested time to peel back the layers, to understand scripture, from a scholarly and historicity standpoint.
 
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Everyone has their own reasons for leaving faith beliefs. What i find telling, are studies have demonstrated, that non believers have more knowledge of religions, than most believers do. This tells me, many non believers, have invested time to peel back the layers, to understand scripture, from a scholarly and historicity standpoint.

There is a wide swath of Christianity whose beliefs are built upon particular interpretations such that, if they start peeling back the layers, they may find their particular faith is not built on quite the firm foundations. That's why many are taught not to ask questions, I think, and honestly why I would never push them either. Some remain cocooned in that and maintain their faith. If they break out and start asking questions, they may find the good, solid answers, and their faith may be restored and deeply strengthened. But there is also the risk that they won't find, or won't accept, those answers, or they will stop looking. It could put them in a bad place, and I don't want to be responsible for that. So if they are secure, I don't like to challenge them.

But there ARE some that explore broadly and do find deep historic (which is valuable) and/or scholarly (which may or may not be) knowledge.
 
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