Can marriage ever be a sin if both are Christian

[mikeforjesus]

I decided actually I should not deprive to seek atleast what I want to marry for I think it better for I know people are always judgemental that they would try to make fun of my affliction because of my actions that I am not worthy and wish to use me as example that I can not be blessed or to make fun of that no one accepts me to have support.

 

[mikeforjesus]

I didn’t want to marry anymore because I felt bad that I had been angry that I am not given though I am blessed that most important thing is to serve that even if not given it must not be obstacle to serving God but I see it is not wrong to want to if God may want to give so I should still seek as others may disrespect one that not worthy but even if not I still serve God.

 

[mikeforjesus]

I decided for the sake of witnessing to the gospel to not to seek to marry. Only if it seemed good later that God showed me it is good.

 

[mikeforjesus]

wanted to get married because of my sins that others mock but I won’t let it distract me that better for sake of witnessing not to that I don’t only care for myself

 

[ZephBonkerer]

wanted to get married because of my sins that others mock but I won’t let it distract me that better for sake of witnessing not to that I don’t only care for myself

What is stopping you from expanding your social network to find a suitable mate?

 

[mikeforjesus]

Because I don’t want to now that I have tried to expand when I want to

 

[mikeforjesus]

I decided I would seek to marry because is better because others take advantage to seek to look down on one without especially because of mistakes to put down and is good to support that more people do seek to marry not to ignore others that are looking for marriage that more do that it is good thing.

 

[mikeforjesus]

I believe there are many Christians that do not wish well for me to want to judge me but they want their intentions hidden. I joined Christian connection dating site and I saw one person liked me that I wanted to put my email that one can contact if they are not full member and Christian connection deletes that from my profile introduction. I know it is fair that they deserve to make profit that they may claim that is all they are thinking which I suppose could be true but I suspect they may wish to judge me that it should be enough I am paying but I can pay for anyone for as long as 3 years subscription for anyone who did not become member if later do get married.

I would put email here with first sentence of my introduction here if person comes to this site to know who I am but I am talking to another that not clear yet to me if she really wants to give me a chance to see.

 

[lenetra]

The bible says as it was in the days of Noah they were marrying and giving in marriage and did not know until the flood came and took them all away so it will be when the son of man returns


In the days of Noah marriage was a sin because sons of God married daughters of men that is the non spiritual people


I thought marriage is never a sin if person is Christian as Paul said he who marries has not sinned but such will have trouble in the flesh


But could it be a sin if the other person possibility may not be a true Christian if they are not of similar background to atleast be born in Christian family though it is possible one is a Christian if one is not

What other situations is it a sin ?

But how can it take them by surprise if Christ will come after the tribulation do you think some will not even believe they are in the tribulation because how then can it take them by surprise ?

My dad says when Paul says in the last days people will forbid marriage it means because people will live together without getting married I don’t think however it is necessary to get married and have kids you may not raise in God if one is not spiritual but this means people should not sin and if they do they must repent

I am convinced now that I should not marry because it may not work out my father thought it was good for me though I don’t have to and my grandfather
my dads father told me before he died he wanted me to get married but my father said I don’t have to listen to him if I thought it was good and I was able to do something for the Lord I would think to get married but I think being single is being more profitable for the Lord the barren has more children than one who is married because you should not make people feel they have to get married which being single is maybe more safe and good for some and you don’t know if you will meet one suitable

unless I am convinced being married is good if I meet one suitable I don’t think I should get married

marriage wasnt a sin. angels weren't suppose to marry because they are holy

 

[mikeforjesus]

Thankyou for your input but I still think it may not be about angels for Jesus said it would be as in time of Noah and I don’t think He will let angels marry again if that was the case that some would be in danger if they are not repenting for Christian’s to seek to marry a non Christian who did not convert to Christianity one would be in danger if the Lord came that one should not but if married one can stay but is in danger if not following to teach the truth of Christianity that one must be but only if the non Christian does not seek to hinder one from following Christ and to teach children but non Christian is in danger

 

[mikeforjesus]

I decided to show more care for what is good not to seem to support greed though I do not believe it is greedy not to be against marriage that others have right to marry but I would not though I wanted to because I felt a lot of people perhaps seek to fight my work of God not to respect because of my situation to allow all people married to think themselves more important and successful though I only care about the work of God that I think it is great attack that I felt wounded from their attacks that they attack the work of gospel and felt God does not support as I felt discouraged but I now believe that was just a temptation of Satan to take me off trusting and I should serve God.

As bible also says my son if you come to serve the Lord prepare yourself for temptation. The bible says God gives good gifts to those who ask Him and delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart that good desires come from God. That God delays because He knows I would be more happy pursuing His best. And I believe it is better that I be single to be more dedicated to service of God that perhaps doing so God will give me greater gifts for choosing so. I will only marry if I can know it is God best will for my life that when I pray I have a sign and I meet someone in my life.

 

[mikeforjesus]

I decided instead I would seek to marry because otherwise people who are Christian’s take advantage to put down my life as seen with pope francis.

 

[mikeforjesus]

I decided anyway for myself not to marry as I should be dedicated to Christ that it is better for sake of gospel if it may be better if it is God perfect will that it helps. I don’t plan to but maybe in future I will only if Christ shows me when I pray that I ask for a sign from Him and it happens.

 

[mikeforjesus]

I decided to seek to marry as I believe some may put down one not marrying and I won’t be supporting but one should marry to increase Christian’s but they are not better as I do want to marry as it is good to have partner to seek God together to do more for those who do not already have others to support them or are not more effective alone and have children that if I do also it encourages more Christian’s to support it to have children as all should be that it is supposed to be what people do to increase Christian’s though God accepts.

 

[mikeforjesus]

I do seek to go to church I was brought up in incase others may not accept me but I do not want to change my beliefs now to compromise them as it is important that I will be seeking to encourage church leaders to receive Christ as Lord and saviour and spouse though I can not force her not to go to church and I can go to learn but they know my position that they must personally receive Christ as Lord and saviour that that is what is important and they should just focus on walk with Christ though I will go to have communion there. They ought to accept me even if I don’t share their belief as it is not important and I will look for one who accepts me.

 

[Sabri]

No lawful marriage can ever be sin. Ill-advised perhaps, but not sin.

Hmm. A believer who willing marries an unbeliever is unequally yoked. Isnt that sin?

 

[Sabri]

Being unequally yoked isn’t a sin, and the Bible doesn’t say it is - it’s just unwise to marry when you know you’re not equally yoked.

Paul says if you’re in that situation, to remain married - and warns against being foolish enough to deliberately become unequally yoked.

So let’s say i marry someone who is a Satan worshipper and i am a Christian. Sin or not sin? What do you say about Solomon. Solomon’s wives turned his heart from God. Why? Because they were worshipping other Gods -Ashtorah, Baal etc. they were unequally yoked

 

[Sabri]

I do seek to go to church I was brought up in incase others may not accept me but I do not want to change my beliefs now to compromise them as it is important that I will be seeking to encourage church leaders to receive Christ as Lord and saviour and spouse though I can not force her not to go to church and I can go to learn but they know my position that they must personally receive Christ as Lord and saviour that that is what is important and they should just focus on walk with Christ though I will go to have communion there. They ought to accept me even if I don’t share their belief as it is not important and I will look for one who accepts me.

To the person who knows to do right and doesn’t do it to that person it’s sin. Being unequally yoked to someone is a sin. You know to do better and willfully don’t do it.

 

[mikeforjesus]

What wrong have I done ? They will not be seeking to hinder me to be unequally yoked as they still are Christian but have not believed they need to receive Christ as Lord and saviour that it matters. I am preaching to them to receive Christ as Lord and saviour which I will seek one in church who does. And I thought it is right not to avoid other churches who confess Christ not to force to benefit to fellowship though should tell them to accept Christ. But perhaps you are right that I should not as I know better not to to witness that I will only go if one accepts me from there not to follow church. Actually I decided not to unlesss Christ shows me to that I seek one with my beliefs though I don’t know I will find.

 

[mikeforjesus]

I believe actually such divisions are wrong and harmful to stumble others that I believe God wants me to trust Him that He is just and focus on my walk not supporting divisions so am not going to. People can follow what they believe that I will not force so others should accept as I do not force.