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Can I ask a question about sin and baptism?

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thereselittleflower

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Photini said:
I'll be back this afternoon Therese. There is an interesting section in a book I've read that addresses the issue of infants and Baptism...and the instance of babies who die before they are baptised.
Hi Phontini

Thank you and I look forward to what you have to share . .

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Defens0rFidei said:
I'm a programmer too!

I guess I don't understand your beliefs and I am not getting any answers, so I will go away.
What I think everyone is trying to say is that, if, due to unforseen circumstances, a person is unable to go through a sacrament before falling asleep (baptism, confession, etc), we believe the Lord's grace and mercy can result in salvation for that person anyway because no matter what we do, God is ultimately in charge.

Even making a confession does not automatically make a person penitent--no more than sitting in a garage and saying "VROOM VROOM!" makes you a car.

Only God knows the content of our hearts and souls and only He can determine their inner workings. So someone who recently confessed could go to hell and someone who may not even have been baptized could go to heaven. We do not believe we have the right to judge, we only make an educated guess (in the case of saints and apostates).
 
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We, of course, believe that they would receive baptism by desire . .


Thank you . . and I fully understand that this would be the case if someone died before receiving the rest of these sacraments . .

My question is not intended to be legalistic, but to understand . . when I am having difficulty understanding something that is being said, I find it easier to break it up into smaller "chunks" and approach it that way . . and then, if I still have confusion, to use examples to try to find the bounderies of the answers given . .

So I asked about what happened "if", which may not make sense to you for someone to ask, but it will help me see your beliefs more clearly . .

So I wasn't asking about someone who died inbetween receiving baptism and the other sacraments, though I can certainly understand why it would seem logical to answer in this way, but I am asking about a baby who, for whatever reason does not receive the rest of the sacraments .. the are prevented by some outside issue, and perhaps their parents never bring them back . .. what is their status in regards to the Mystical Body of Christ? Are they joined to it?

The earlier answers seemed to suggest to me that they would not be . . and this is what I want to make sure that I understand . . .

So, if someone understands what I am asking, and would like to clarify this for me, it would be much appreciated . .



Peace in Him!
 
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I do not pretend to be even a postulant at Orthodox theology, but I think you're asking almost exactly the same question as "baptism of desire" was set forth to explain.

The expectation is that a baby will be baptized, receive the further gifts we variously describe by chrismation and confirmation, be trained in the knowledge of the faith, enter into communing in the Eucharist, and live out his or her faith by moral action. But God is merciful that if any element of that is impossible for whatever reason, He understands and does not expect the impossible. Some weeks ago we had a discussion in General Theology in which Nazarene pastor WesleyJohn's brother, also a pastor, was to preach at a memorial service for a severely retarded young lady. Did she ever reach "the age of reason" or "the age of accountability"? What would a just, loving, and merciful God do in her case? IMHO, when we take the norms of a Christian life and attempt to construct extreme cases in which fulfillment of a norm is not possible, we do an injustice to God's mercy. He expects moral behavior and an understanding of the faith from you and me who are able to recognize and perform the first and grasp the second -- he does not expect adult behavior of a three-year-old, nor a grasp of the intricacies of Trinitarian doctrine from a mentally retarded person. If you want to construct a hypothetical doctrine of "confirmation by desire" there, you are more than welcome to -- but I place my trust in the God who has saved me through absolutely no merit of my sinful self but out of His great love for me and all my brothers and sisters in Christ, a totally undeserved gift.
 
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hi Polycarp1

thanks . . and I understand what you are saying .. but what I am finding when I read other sources, and try to compare them with what has been posted here they seem contradictory . . let me post this quote:



This is by George Rogers, EO author of Apostolic Succession, answering questions put to him about his book . .

Here he is saying that Baptism is what joins us to the Body of Christ, yet Chanter made a very real distinction between Baptism and the other sacraments, and it was clear to me that she was saying that we were not joined to the body of Christ at baptism . . that the act of Baptism did not join us to His body . .

To me, there are real, conflicting statements here . . and then people say they don't conflict . . but they do!

I am trying to understand . . '


From what I have seen in other sources, the EO teaches that we are joined to the Body of Christ through Baptism . .

I don't know why people here seem to be saying something different. . this is confusing . .


Peace in Him!


 
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This is by George Rogers, EO author of Apostolic Succession, answering questions put to him about his book . .
That's Fr. Gregory Rogers, actually.

Sorry, I'm a perfectionist.

Therese, I don't want to make it sound like we are trying to put you off, but you might do better to consult the www.oca.org website. Fr. John is very good at apologetics, and we are just laypersons--we can only do so much.

We see baptism/chrismation/first Eucharist as almost like one big sacrament which fully joins us to the Body of Christ. When we look at how the Catholics do it, baptizing, and later confirming and communicating Catholic children, we see it as unnecessarily stretching this over several years. Holy Baptism is what this 'amalgamated sacrament' hinges upon--if you don't have time to go through the whole process before the candidate will die, that's why you need only do an emergency baptism--however, if the candidate survives, you need to have it finished, because this 'amalgamated sacrament' is not supposed to be interrupted like that unless need calls for it. I think we see the Catholic way of initiating children as being the spiritual equivalent of an emergency baptism.
 
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Matrona said:
That's Fr. Gregory Rogers, actually.

Sorry, I'm a perfectionist.

LOL

I didn't know he was a Father, so I found a good resource then it seems . . ?

Therese, I don't want to make it sound like we are trying to put you off, but you might do better to consult the www.oca.org website. Fr. John is very good at apologetics, and we are just laypersons--we can only do so much.
You are not putting me off at all by suggesting this . . I appreciate it and will definitely check it out . . Thank you for directing me there!

We see baptism/chrismation/first Eucharist as almost like one big sacrament which fully joins us to the Body of Christ.
This is how it seems to me as well . . but they are indeed different sacraments and recognized as such . . but the way they are performed, they get rolled into one almost, one on top of the other, so it seems to me, from the outside, they are loosing their individual distinctiveness, which seems to lead to the confusing way they are spoken about to those outside . . But if I were Orthodox, I can understand why questions such as I am asking, don't really seem to matter from the Orthodox veiwpoint. . there is generally no need to go into these questions in depth . .

I am wondering how much we see these 3 sacraments the same or differently . . I know we don't see it as an emergency baptism . .

When my children come into the Catholic Church, they will receive all three of these sacraments . . evem though conformation (chrismation) is usually not given untill they are older . .


Peace in Him!
 
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thereselittleflower said:
LOL

I didn't know he was a Father, so I found a good resource then it seems . . ?
Oh yes. Fr. Gregory wrote the Apostolic Sucession book that is published by Conciliar Press--I couldn't find any books on apostolic succession by anyone named "George Rogers" so I assume you meant Father Gregory.

And if this is who you meant, yes, you did find a good resource--he is my parish priest.

You are not putting me off at all by suggesting this . . I appreciate it and will definitely check it out . . Thank you for directing me there!
You're welcome. Their Q & A e-mail address is info@oca.org and Fr. John is pleased to answer any questions anyone can put to him, even an old moron like me.

 
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Well . . what a small world!


You're welcome. Their Q & A e-mail address is info@oca.org and Fr. John is pleased to answer any questions anyone can put to him, even an old moron like me.
I just spent some time looking through the site . . I found one quote that was interesting and helps to see the prespective of the EO a little better:

http://www.oca.org/pages/orth_chri/orthodox-faith/worship/the-sacraments.html


I don't think there is anything wrong with how the EO does this . . I am now trying to better understand why the Catholic Church waits . .

And I am pleased that your children will not experience the delay in their initiation sacraments.
I as well!

And it is very interesting that the Catholic Church says this about the 3 sacraments:


Baptism, the Eucharist, and the sacrament of Confirmation together constitute the "Sacraments of Christian Initiation", whose unity must be safeguarded . .


So it seems we are not so far off from one another . . just how we understand it to be done . .



For the record, I have never seen a baby harmed by taking communion, nor have I ever seen a baby spit up the Eucharist. And if you've ever fed a baby, you know the latter MUST be the grace of God at work.
LOL yes, I have fed many babies! My own and many, many others!


Here is something interesting from the CCC



Two Traditions: East and West


1290 In the first centuries Confirmation generally comprised on single celebration with Baptism, forming with it a "double sacrament," according to the expression of St. Cyprian. among other reasons, the multiplication of infant baptisms all through the year, the increase of rural parishes, and the grouth of cioceses often prevented the biship from being present at all baptismal celebrations. In the West the desire to reserve the completion of Baptism to the biship caused the temporal separation of the two sacraments. The East has kept the united, so that confirmation is conferre by the priest who baptizes. Buyt he can do so only with the "myron" consecrated by a biship. (Cf. CCEO, can 695 ss 1; 696 ss 1) (I am using "ss" for a symbol I don't know how to make on my computer)

1291 A custom of the Roman Church facilitated the development of the Western practice: a double anointing with the sacred chrism after Baptism. The first anointing of the neophyte on coming out of the baptismal bath was performed by the priest; it was completed by a second anointing on the forehead of the newly baptized by the biship. (Cf St Hippolytus, Trad Ap. 21: SCh 11, 80-95) The first anointing with sacred chrism, by the priest,, has remained attached tothe baptismal rite; it signifies the participation of the one baptized in the prophetic, priestly, and kngly offices of Christ. If Baptism is conferred on an adult, there is only one post-baptismal anointing, that of confirmation.

1292 The practice of the Eastern Churches gives greater emphasis to the unity of Christian initiation. That of the Latin Church more clearly expresses the communion of the new Christian with the bishop as guarantor and servant of the unity, catholicity and apostilicity of his Church, and hence the connection with the apostolic origins of Christ's Church



So . . if I understand right, in the Western Church, Chrismation is begun at baptism . .

Peace in Him!
 
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This is an excerpt from a treatise written by St Gregory of Nyssa entitled "Concerning Infants Snatched Away Prematurely."



www.sp.uconn.edu/~salomon/nyssa/infants.htm

In his book, Life After Death, Metropolitan Hierotheos Vlachos uses this treatise to address the issue of infant death, Baptism (even though it isn't the main focus of the work), and the state of our soul at birth. I'll write out what he says about it in another post....probably a little later because my daughter has a soccer game in a little while. Her team is undefeated so far!!!
 
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Whoever suggested to ask Fr. John at oca.org had a wonderful idea - he's great! And I too am a "moron" who has had things spelled out for me by him - many times!

.. what is their status in regards to the Mystical Body of Christ? Are they joined to it?
Reminds me of a quote by St. Augustine - "There are wolves within the Church and sheep without."

God is the ultimate judge, and we do not dare to try. We can give our children the grace of the sacraments and raise them right, but being a member of the Church is not an ultimate guarantee. We do not go to confession and baptize and partake of the Eucharist to try to escape a place called Hell, but rather to ensure that when we meet God, the experience is heavenly- that we are "divinized" and ready to be in His presence - that we may find His Love warm and divine, rather than finding that it burns us. I would not worry about when the exact moment was that my child became part of the Church, on the day s/he is baptized, chrismated, and communed for the first time - I would be more concerned about s/he "working out their salvation with fear and trembling" throughout their life.

A few suggestions: Try reading "Common Ground" by Jordan Bajis. It explains Eastern Christianity in terms Western Christians can understand. I think the problem here is not that things are contradicting each other, but that you are seeing Eastern Christian concepts through Western Christian eyes. It is an entirely different ethos. Frederica Mathewes-Green (one of my favorite people in the world!) wrote an article about the Eastern ethos a while back. If I can dig it up, I'll post it.

There is also a book called "Two Paths" by Michael Whelton, that examines Latin Christianity in the light of Orthodox Christianity. I have not been able to read it yet, though (my fiance "borrowed" it about 6 months ago....), but it looked good.

Hope this helps.
 
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I agree completely!


I also feel the same way . .

I am looking forward to this .. and I think that our different ways of thinking, looking at life, creates misunderstanding where none need be. .

As a protestant, I read a work on Prayer, that was written by a Japanese Catholic Priest . . but it was so eastern compared to how the western mind understood prayer .. it increased my understanding of prayer 100 fold . . .

One day, we will all be united again.


Peace in Him!
 
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From Life After Death by Metropolitan of Nafpaktos Hierotheos

Chap.7, The Death of Infants



 
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Hey everyone, been busy for a few days and just reading up. One note on the initial sacraments. Most Orthodox Churches usually perform the Baptism and Chrismation on a Saturday and the infant receives 1st communion at Divine Liturgy the next day. In some small parishes they will do the whole ceremony before Divine Liturgy so that it is an all in one day.
 
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Photini said:
From Life After Death by Metropolitan of Nafpaktos Hierotheos

Chap.7, The Death of Infants




Thank you Photini . .

That fits more in line with how I understand that Baptism joins us to the body of Christ, and helps a great deal towards understanding how the Orthodox view what baptism of infants accomplishes . . and goes much towards dispelling the confusion that developed earlier in this thread . .


Thank you!


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I think this is very much on target.

Even making a confession does not automatically make a person penitent--no more than sitting in a garage and saying "VROOM VROOM!" makes you a car.
I love this line -- it should be a part of "quotable quotes" somewhere!
 
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