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But it was not a Choice...

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This is sick but that analogy kinda made me laugh. It's a big deal to me and Zaac because it is clearly a sin in the bible and there really isn't a way around it. It's bothersome when people twist scripture to fit what they want it to be when it clearly is not.

I think of late at least I finally get why some anti-gay people feel the way you do here. I can actually appreciate that according to your interrpretation of the Bible it is us pro-gay people that are twisting the word of God.

I'm not going to debate this point with you as I'm sure it would be fairly pointless, but in all seriousness Im curious as to if you can at least see the other sides perspective. In the Bible I never see Jesus grabbing gay people by the collar screaming "ITS A SIN" at them repeatedly, in fact I don't believe he even meets a gay person in scripture. Jesus dosen't do this, so why do so many fundamentalist Christians who claim to be following his word?

Can you at least see the suffering lots of people who are gay go through because of viewpoints similar to yours. I mean low self-esteem, self-harm, suicide etc.. that does occour in young gay people is often caused by the very fact so many people (at least over in the US, I rarely hear anything over in the UK now) campaign against them? Or is the fact you believe your saving souls cancel out all the suffering of others?

Im not trying to bait here, I genuinally would like to have some answers to these questions.
 
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Are you accusing me of something here? I don't hold the bible to the level I do God. The bible is the word of God , however, therefore it is important to follow it.

Perhaps because non-believers are closed to the true message.
No accusations from me.

Obviously you reject the idolatry of making the bible "god."
 
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You did not read my post. You simply skimmed for buzzwords. Otherwise you would not claim that I was proposing the angel-lust theory.

I specifically stated that because that was the usual "debunking" of Jude, I had trouble accepting the position that God was leading me toward. In order to believe that explanation you have to deny that the Scriptures were devinely inspired.



Genesis 19, like Judges 19, 2 Samuel 10, and 1 Chronicles 19 speaks to a political act of terrorism and intimidation. Yes, there is a sexual aspect to gang-rape, but it is not driven by lust, but by other base insticts. How can you not know the difference between sex and rape?

And, as I explained, Jude does not say that the Sodomites "lusted after strange flesh," but rather that they followed after another, fleshly, religion. Earlier in the verse, he does mention their giving themselves over into fornication, but he does not indicate that that fornication was different in any way from other fornication. In particular, he does not mention same-sex fornication.
Thought crime - how lovely.
 
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He didn't demonstrate how his lifestyle is scriptural, and then made mention of me calling God a liar. I did show he was mistaken. you didn't demonstrate it was false you made assumptions that because other scripture talks about the other sins of Sodom and Gomorrah, that means that there was no sin regarding homosexuality, when Genesis 19 and Jude 7 actually parallel each other in that sense, as I explained.
You showed nothing of the kind. All you did in your earlier post was to intimate that God was a liar.

Why you continue to do so is beyond me.
 
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No, The bible calls homosexuality an abomination. That means one of you (you or God) is lying. I don't believe it is God.
Homosexuality is never called an abomination. Leviticus doesn’t condemn homosexuality in any way.


Leviticus has many laws about having carnal relations with of another person the Hebrew word for this shakhabh. Multiple times we can find prohibitions about having carnal relations with any number of people. (though it is surprising to see who is not included) what we do not find in either Leviticus 18:22 or 20:13 is a prohibition of carnal relations (shakhabh) between two men. In literal translations we do not even find the strange and awkwardly worded “though shall not lie”… which is the Hebrew mishkabh. Rather we find the Hebrew word shakab. Shakab is used 52 times in the old testament and is always used to a sexual encounter typified by deceit or force, in other words, some type of rape.
Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13 means that a man shall not force, or in any way coerce, another man to have sex. In other words, man is an abomination to rape a man. And a man raping a man is no more a description of homosexuality than a man raping a woman is a description of heterosexuality.
 
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Incorrect. The bible calls men lying with other men shameful, an abomination, and worthy of death.
No it says male on male rape is morally wrong, not homosexuality.

It is interesting to note however that the bible very few problems with women being raped…But that is a different topic.
What does not exist is real genetic proof that homosexuality is inborn. There is psychological analysis, but there is no concrete genetic proof (the same kind of proof that lets us know black people are born black).

Actually a great deal of evidence showing sexual oriention is inborn does exist and such evidence is easy to find so long as one is willing to honestly look

What does not exist is evidence that homosexuality is a choice.
 
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I am not a liar, and neither is God. He created me gay, and blessed me with a wonderful partner.

You argue that God created you gay so it is okay ? That seems to be the arguement here.

Well. Adam and Eve were created straight and when they sinned God kicked them out of the Garden of Eden. God punished them even though they acted on their God given impulses and instinct.

So, straight from the first chapters of the Bible we see a story (no I do not take the Bible fundamentaly) that tears this line of argument down.

The story of Adam and Eve shows what happens when mortals place their desires and impulses above God's rules.
 
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Then take a piece of Scripture that you believe to support the performing of homosexual acts and let me show you the door for confusion you will open and why it is impossible for you to reconcile the FULL COUNSEL of God's Word with such a thing.

Then take a piece of Scripture that you believe to support the prejudice, hate and discrimination of our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters and let me show you the door for confusion you will open and why it is impossible for you to reconcile the FULL COUNSEL of God's Word with such a thing.

I said it before and I'll say it again. God's Word just isn't this difficult.




And I fear that you have listened to something other than the Holy Spirit.
and do you have a reason for saying this other than the rejection of prejudice by Gwyn?
 
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You argue that God created you gay so it is okay ? That seems to be the arguement here.
Prove God didn’t create CT homosexual

Well. Adam and Eve were created straight and when they sinned God kicked them out of the Garden of Eden. God punished them even though they acted on their God given impulses and instinct.

So, straight from the first chapters of the Bible we see a story (no I do not take the Bible fundamentaly) that tears this line of argument down.

The story of Adam and Eve shows what happens when mortals place their desires and impulses above God's rules.
Like the desire to justify personal prejudice?
 
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There are many who would point to Jonathan and David as exactly that sort of covenant. I, myself, do not claim to know how physical their love was, but the only reason for rejecting even the possibilty is the a priori assumption that God's Word can't espouse their love.

Now I say that to make the point that you should let God's Word speak for itself. Deal with what the text says, and not what we assume to possibly be able to read into it.

Unless such a physical love is exampled elsewhere, why open the door for confusion? How many times does God show that His desired way is the union of man and wife? How many times does He have to show that fornication is sinful? How many times does He have to show that marriage is a covenant between Him a husband and a wife?

If you're going to read any such assumption into the story of David and Jonathon, you have to ignore what He says about the aforementioned.

I'm just saying that if the church or the state wrongly refuses to recognize a marriage covenant that does not, perforce, example God's plan.
Of course it doesn't. But where is your Biblical example that God's intent for marriage is anything other than what He says it is, and He says it is a man joined with a woman?

When, in the sixties, the state forbade interracial marriage -- and quoted the Bible to support the ban -- that state was in the wrong. I never said God's Word was wrong or that it had changed.
Clearly the state was wrong and there were clearly people of God back in the sixties who knew it was wrong and they fought to change it.

But changing man's laws does not change what God says. And God's view for marriage is clear.


That is unresponsive to my point. Your use of the word "committing" presupposes that any such act is sinful. If I accept your use of the word "committing" I am giving up any chance of explaining the truth.
See now you're just acting silly. If it is an ACT, why would I say anything other than committing? If it's an act, it's being committed. If you're not committing sexual acts with the same sex, then there is no act to call sinful. But once you commit the act...It's not rocket science. :)

You don't have to accept committing. But this is how you CONTINUE to twist a lie into your version of the truth.

If a person is committing sexual acts with a person of the same sex it IS SIN.

I do not claim that what you do with your wife is "committing" sinful heterosexual acts, and if I did and you accepted my phrasing, then you would not be able to properly defend yourself. The phrasing is akin to the classic question "When did you stop beating your wife?"
Again, you're continuing with this silliness and have become fixated on the word committing. What do you want me to say? Doing homosexual acts?

The acts are taking place and if a person is engaged in same sex acts, it is a SIN.

I'm not defending me, and that's where you as a Christian keep getting confused. You seem to think this is a tete-a-tete prove my point before you can prove yours discussion. And that's what you continue to do. That's what you have done in the number of threads where you've attempted to prove this LIE. Yes I said LIE because that's exactly what it is.

God has said it, and unless you and your theology are aligned with it, you are a false teacher.

First, I am not your "dear." Second I object to people who take terms of endearment and use them as cusswords. It cheapens them And don't bother to deny that instead of "dear" you wanted to call me "you *&%#$" There is no other reason to address me like that.
First, I don't swear. Never have. Second, it speaks to YOUR spirit that you read something into that which was not there. :)



I don't disagree with this as stated. Lots of people get married for the wrong reasons. But getting married for sinful reasons does not invalidate the marriage. And, more to the point, nothing you have said shows that a same-sex marriage is a wrong and sinful marriage just because it is same-sex.
12But these men blaspheme in matters they do not understand. They are like brute beasts, creatures of instinct, born only to be caught and destroyed, and like beasts they too will perish. 2 Peter 2:12


But in response to the claim that I don't espouse what God's word says about sin:

Every homosexual act that God's word calls sin is sin. Every heterosexual act that God's word calls sin is sin. Every spiritual act that God's word calls sin is sin. Every natural act that God's word calls sin is sin. But that does not mean that every natural act is sin. That does not mean that every spiritual act is sin. That does not mean that every heterosexual act is sin And that does not mean that every homosexual act is sin.
 
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The following exchange between you and ChaliceThunder is the perfect example of what I am talking about.





If someone were as rude as that to ask about your private life with your wife, and to imply that whatever they learn about it will be condemned as fornication would you just meekly stand by and take it? Or would you explain to him that he is being rude? And that he has no excuse for getting personal? And that his attitude toward you and toward your relationship with your wife are outside the bounds of civilized behavior?

Have you been a party to discussions had between me and Chalice and others in other threads? Chalice has made it clear where he stands on his relationship and who it is with.

You continue with this "come to the rescue" act, while continuing to encourage sin. I lack the power to condemn anything as sin. God says its sin. ALl I can do is point it out. If you or anyone else takes issue with that, consult with God.

But you will henceforth be called what the Bible says you are: a false teacher.
 
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Zaac

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Please do go find the actual quote of mine where I described my sexual acts with my partner.

Once again you have assumed too much.

Looks like you assumed. I didn't assume anything. Why do you think I flat out asked you? :D

I have not asked you about your private bedroom life.

You will now refrain from asking me about mine.

I can ask about whatever I choose as you can choose whether or not you respond in kind.

But what you do in your bedroom or not doesn't change what God says about people of the same sex engaging in sexual acts.
 
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Then take a piece of Scripture that you believe to support the prejudice, hate and discrimination of our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters and let me show you the door for confusion you will open and why it is impossible for you to reconcile the FULL COUNSEL of God's Word with such a thing.

There you go again with that red herring. Who said anything about the Bible supporting prejudice, hate, and discrimination? :confused:

and do you have a reason for saying this other than the rejection of prejudice by Gwyn?


Gwyn's issue ain't the rejection of prejudice. It's the rejection of God's Word. She is a false teacher and needs to be recognized as such.
 
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Prove God didn’t create CT homosexual


Like the desire to justify personal prejudice?
I did not argue that God did not create CT a homosexual.

God may have his reasons for wanting CT genes out of the gene pool.

All you do is call everyone prejudice and racists. That is boring. Everytime you generically use another's line of argument in falls through. Get educated. Try to come up withsomething more than three sentances long that is original.

Your buddy, BAFRIEND aka LANTERN.
 
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ChaliceThunder

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You argue that God created you gay so it is okay ? That seems to be the arguement here.

Well. Adam and Eve were created straight and when they sinned God kicked them out of the Garden of Eden. God punished them even though they acted on their God given impulses and instinct.

So, straight from the first chapters of the Bible we see a story (no I do not take the Bible fundamentaly) that tears this line of argument down.

The story of Adam and Eve shows what happens when mortals place their desires and impulses above God's rules.
Dear Boy,
What do Adam and Eve have to do with this?????
 
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Looks like you assumed. I didn't assume anything. Why do you think I flat out asked you? :D



I can ask about whatever I choose as you can choose whether or not you respond in kind.

But what you do in your bedroom or not doesn't change what God says about people of the same sex engaging in sexual acts.
Dude,
You seriously have to deal with your own issues on homosexuality.

You are not entitled to know anything about my private life. Neither are you entitled to judge it...PERIOD.
 
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Dude,
You seriously have to deal with your own issues on homosexuality.

I don't have any issues on homosexuality. I'm in agreement with God's Word on the committing of sexual acts with smeone of the same sex being sinful.

You are not entitled to know anything about my private life.

I don't need to know. But if you are having sex with your partner of 23 years, it's just as sinful as the teenage boy who has sex with his girlfriend.

Neither are you entitled to judge it...PERIOD.

God's Word again disagrees with ya.:)
 
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I don't need to know. But if you are having sex with your partner of 23 years, it's just as sinful as the teenage boy who has sex with his girlfriend.

I hope you are equally as loud and fervent in saying that people who divorce and remarry are also living in sexual sin. After all, fair's fair.
 
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