No such thing as a divorce between two men found in the bible. You're treading in unbiblical nonsense. No way can 144,000 men alone repopulate the earth.
I'm not sure that I've accurately followed the back and forth between you and Keras on this issue, but the 144k is described in such a way that provides for a lot of interpretation.
I think your reference to the thing about the 144k not being able to repopulate the earth is based on the idea that they are all men, and that this conclusion is based on the description that they were not defiled with women (because they are virgins).
However, as is usual with spiritual issues, there is often more happening below the surface. I'm thinking about Jesus' comment to the pharisees that if they destroy this temple Jesus would rebuild it in three days. Anyone looking on could reasonably conclude that Jesus was, indeed, referring to the physical temple since they were at the temple when he said it. He said "this" temple. Did he gesture to his body when he said it? Did he give any hint or indication that he was not referring to the physical temple? It doesn't seem that way. It comes across as though he was deliberately leaving plenty of room for the pharisees to misunderstand, which is similar to the explanation Jesus gave for using parables, in that didn't want to make the issues perfectly clear to people who weren't prepared to hear it anyway. It seems it is a requirement of sincerity that we look deeper than what is said on the surface and that we are responsible for what we choose, or choose not to see.
Something similar happens with prophecy. There is almost always more happening behind the words. So, when part of the description of the 144k mentions physical traits like sex and virginity, it makes me think, "But, spirituality based on physical traits like sexual orientation and sexual activity are inconsistent with what Jesus said about the Kingdom of Heaven being within us".
I believe the reference to "not being defiled with women" is, spiritually, a reference to not giving into an effeminate spirit, where the emotions control logic and reason. Instead, logic and reason regulate the emotions. I believe this expresses itself practically when people say stuff like, "How could a loving God do this or that". What they are referring to is a kind of immature, emotional love which makes no demands or sacrifices, whereas real love, the kind of love that God has, can be quite hard and even ruthless at times. An example of this would be God allowing Jesus to go through so much suffering and separation from himself, for us, or asking Abraham to kill his only son as a show of loyalty. It would be UNloving for God not to teach us that he comes first, even if those lessons are difficult to bear and/or come near to crushing us with their intensity.
When the angels are pouring out their vials of wrath, one of them says, "Holy and true are thy judgments". When I first read this I was surprised that the angel would make such a comment amidst so much suffering; isn't it enough that they're pouring out the judgments? Do they really need to give commentary on how righteous God is for dishing out punishments? I can imagine a brother or sister saying, "you're so right to do this, dad" as their father spanks a sibling. And yet, I believe that is the kind of strong, rational faith the 144k will have, that they will not be swayed or confused by all the emotional pity and manipulation of the hard times which will come upon the earth. Instead they will cite the tribulation as a Holy expression of God's love for the world, even if/when they are hated for doing so.
I believe the 144k will also include women, too, in the same way that references like, "except a man be born again he cannot see the kingdom of Heaven" also includes women, even though he specifically says, "man". For me, the single most important part of the description of the 144k is that they "follow the lamb where ever he goes". These people are extremely, fiercely loyal to Jesus, and I believe the reason why they receive special protection during the tribulation (at least for parts of it) is because they've already learned to discipline themselves (at least in some areas) in a way in which the rest of the world has not and therefore the tribulation (which is always designed to teach/correct) is less applicable to them in some ways.
