I have a friend of mine that I have known since 7th grade from church. He was the model Christian, his walk was as straight as his talk and he was a great guy, he commited his life to be a youth minister, he also was going out with this girl who is also a really great friend of mine and a great Christian girl as well. Well he went off to college last year (a supposedly "Christian" college), and came back with problems with anger, and would just get mad over the smallest things, and start swearing up a storm. His grades tanked (I mean he passed 2 classes all year) and no body knows why. He and the girl recently broke up because he kept taking his anger out on her, and she couldn't take it anymore, and was really hurt by it. He has recently been hanging out with this other guy who goes to our church, but is a bad influence, and recently they have started drinking heavily. (Both are underage). He also calls his ex and tells her she is all he has to live for, and that getting back together would make him shape up. Me and my friends have tried talking to him, but it just goes in one ear and out the other. I would talk to his folks, but his dad is the youth minister, and would take it very hard indeed. We have gone out on a limb to make him feel included and not left out because of his behavior(his best friend went to another church, chased a girl, and never came back, so he feels left in the cold) but our efforts are starting to seem fruitless and I don't know what to do. Where do you draw the line between looking out for a friend, and babysitting? He is an adult, so he has to make his own decisions, but he's making all the wrong ones!!!! !!!!!!