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It's a Boy! Jace David- Due 1/20/07
If a woman leaves an abusive man what happens? The man finds another woman to abuse and (or) the woman finds another man to abuse her.
Or, the man realizes the mistakes he has made and realizes he has come close to losing everything dear to him and gets his butt in gear to improve the future, while he can't repair things with his wife, he can help himself be a better person for his children. The wife can quit putting up with the abuse for the safety of herself and her children and find a nice guy who treats her with the love and respect she has always deserved.
I don't think its fair to make this a trusting God issue. Sometimes people will not allow God to work in their lives, if an abuser will not seek God for help, the chances of him changing through God are not very likely. In the meantime, the wife/husband being abused and the children are suffering unimaginable damage.
My parents divorced last april and I believe it is the best thing for their situation. I don't believe it was ever in God's will for them to get married in the first place. They are both better people now when they are apart. My dad is no longer an abuser, he finally realized what he had to lose, he takes care of things around the house, he shows emotion to me, and my siblings. The absence of constant screaming is a definate bonus for my siblings who still live at home. I honestly believe that God understands each individual situation because he knows the people involved.
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