First of all, I just have to say that even if I may disagree with your conclusions, I do appreciate your definite effort in applying your own analysis to the issues of the OP. (Thanks for do that, unlike how some others here try to just get by with a passing comment that amounts to something like, "It's really none of your business!"
Well, yes and no. Atheists and theists will generally agree with T.M. Scanlon (yeah, here comes a The Good Place reference) that morality is humanity's attempt to answer the question "what do we owe each other?"
Ha ha! That's a great reference, even if I don't now remember what episode Chidi brought that up ... I'll have to go back and re-watch. But yes, I think in a general way, Scanlon's comment is very applicable here.
We find that there is a great deal of overlap between what kinds of actions both atheists and theists agree are either moral or immoral.
Where they will differ is in how they justify their answers at the very fundamental level. Because they disagree on where morality comes from, it is inevitable (and again, unremarkable) that either side will find the other's justification lacking somewhere down the line of continued why's. Moral differences between atheists and theists don't have to stem from moral ontology, though. It's entirely possible to make simple comparisons of two people's adherence to mutually-accepted maxims without them having to align perfectly in all other aspects of their moral framework. For example, can an atheist not say to a Christian "I think I'm more moral than you because I am a little kinder to everyone around me than you are?" This is the only kind of comparison I see atheists making when they call themselves more moral than Christians.
... it's been my experience that there isn't as much agreement here as we might suppose: not only are there citations of actual values that can be tallied up into comparative lists, but even if there are some similar values on the respective moral lists between an atheist and a theist (or more to the point, a Christian specifically), there no guarantee that those values will hold the same priority or the same ethical reasoning by which to put it into effect. And these differences in respective praxis can make quite the difference in the actual moral decisions and actions that are expressed in our various lives.
There are some atheists who will argue that Christians are actually more moral even than their God, which simply won't compute from a theistic framework, but when taken as the sort of comparison I just described, you start to see where they're coming from.
Yes, I've run into some of them, and I'm typically shocked to hear it. I'm left thinking that the only Christians they know must go to Westboro Baptist, or some other similar place of religious chicanery.
I don't think anyone can do that. But that's no reason not to do our best.
Yes, I much agree with that, but both of us can, I'm sure, point to others who ** ahem ** aren't doing their best and feel no need to do so, yet still count themselves as "moral" and insist that the rest of us affirm that very thing on their behalf. And I'm not just implying that atheists are the only ones who can fail in this regard; we know many folks who claim to be Christian also don't know the right side of 'up' when it comes to talking about morality and ethics, and they don't want to be pushed to engage it either (...shame on them.)
As I mentioned before, obviously theists and atheists are going to find each other's moral ontology and epistemology worrisome and baseless. Atheism is a tough pill to swallow for those who are accustomed to a worldview that hands you all the answers in a neat package with a promise that it'll all make sense one day, or that there's at least one mind out there who "gets it" so we don't have to. But it's equally troubling as an atheist to find theists so cocksure in their moral declarations when, even though they trace those declarations directly to what they consider the lynchpin of reality, they cannot justify this worldview to the atheist. It's the same as someone who dogmatically believes "all cats must die, thus saith the Living Universe" criticizing an atheist because he can't justify his affection for cats directly from the lack of an authoritative living universe. The atheist would be less worried about his moral epistemology and more worried about the welfare of his cat around this person.
Yes, I'd be worried about my cat too, if I had one, if I were around someone like that as well. Of course, somewhere in the midst of all of this we have to remember that some folks do qualify as sociopathic, so our expectations about the extent to which we could work all of this out among ourselves will have some natural limitations.
Anyway, if the fact that some theists are "so cocksure" about their moral concepts, how do you think you might best address that issue with them? (Or, what would Chidi suggest?
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