Asking to be set up

[christiansoccerplayer]

Does a single guy seem desperate if he asks to be set up?? Asking for a friend

 

[bèlla]

Meeting is the first part. What you do afterward determines the outcome. You’ve admitted your limited experience elsewhere. That won’t be the case for most women in their thirties or forties.

You’ll be responsible for developing the connection and wooing her. Are you comfortable doing that?

Yours in His Service,

~bella

 

[Sketcher]

What is setting up? That is when someone you know finds a person they know and arranges for you two to have a first date, or at least meet.

The person doing the setting up is the filter for both people. Therefore, if you come to them asking to help you meet someone, I would expect any hints of desperation that would come with the asking to be filtered out - but it's really up to the person, not to you. Simultaneously, you have to consider what this person thinks will make a good couple. That can be an asset or a liability. If someone has a track record of picking train wreck women for himself or for others, one can expect that he will get you similar results.