Are you not defined by your actions?

[zephcom]

So if they are having a bad day then that's it for you, huh?
I see you as argumentative on this thread should I expect that from you in the future or should I allow you this slip and think positive of you from now on?

I am argumentative and yes, you should expect that from me in the future.

From my POV, simply because one is argumentative is not a negative attribute. Being argumentative is an antidote to herd mentality.