Well....we can’t be priest or deacons, so I guess that is a big difference
I don’t feel like we are treated differently though in equality, value of our opinion or input, other ministries, etc. We have women who preach, teach, sometimes act as president of the parish council, lead the choir, etc. Preaching isn’t the most common ministry for women, but it does happen some.
Many women in our church stay home with kids when they are young, but plenty work as well. I am one of the only married women without kids, though, so I guess that does separate me some from some others who are my age / life stage.
So....being the odd one out for not having kids yet (not for a lack of trying) and not having an ordained role are probably the two biggest differences. I’m fine with the latter though, since it isn’t related to the whole “women are the weaker sex and were the first to sin, so they can’t preach to or teach men or talk at services” and the such. That is frustrating to hear. The former is tough on multiple levels.
ETA: It is strange to me though that a man can be ordained as a reader, and a woman reader can’t be ordained. We both can be readers, but being ordained as a reader is I guess part of that lower level of the ordained clergy /priesthood. Since we both can do the same thing though, just without the title, it’s not a big deal to me.