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That'd have me leaving, honestly. That's ridiculous.
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No. But if the family is not coming around in a year or 2 we start to get suggestions to see a urologist to fix our “problem.”
How about being told after tithing faithfully, that YOU are not allowed to vote on the budget
cause you're not the head of your household
but your a single woman
and YOU are the head of the house!
Apparently my money is all good, yep
But I cant even say how the money is used
at my own church
We were married in the summer and at our first Christmas a few months later, I was given a plastic diaper pail as one of my gifts from a church member.
I suppose one question to ask the ladies in the thread in light of yesterday's ordeal with a Bishop groping a female celebrity at a funeral of all places... is that something that's common?
I can't tell if he's so incredibly stupid to think he'd get away with it or so emboldened by unchallenged experience to not care?
It was pretty awkward to watch and I feel so sorry for her. You could see how uncomfortable she was.
While my story was nothing like that, I did post early in the thread that I felt groped when I tried a church as a teenager, and the adults thought it was "cute" because they liked the kid doing it. My mother and I were horrified and never went back
I read an article about nuns last week having to deal with a lot of abuse because of their station and the power held over them. Apparently some were used to fulfill sexual sins because they were known to be pure and unlikely to spread disease for the deed. Awful!
https://www.voanews.com/a/nuns-break-silence-over-years-of-abuse/4504592.html
I could not agree more. How horrible.That's awful on both counts
That is such a self serving idea. It has little to do with God’s justice or the Hebraic culture that gave rise to the church.How many Pastors have been caught and appeal to their congregation for forgiveness, prayer and mercy?
I suppose one question to ask the ladies in the thread in light of yesterday's ordeal with a Bishop groping a female celebrity at a funeral of all places... is that something that's common?
id better pop out a bunch of babys asap c
When I was about to get married and move to a different country (so closing my buisness) one woman ask me “ so youll be having kids right away then?
When I said “nope, We dont want kids.”
She then proceded to scold me and tell me that I would change my mind and id better pop out a bunch of babys asap cause otherwards I wouldent be able to keep a man (the implication being that the man would only stay “for the children”) and how would I support myself then?
Say what?! At a funeral? Gross on so many levels.
I haven't been groped at church. I've had the odd occasion where I suspect I might have been if I hadn't been quite so quick to physically move.
People with non-traditional or egalitarian relationships seem to still be fair game for judgmental attitudes, despite the supposed advances of feminism and LGBT rights. What's worse is that I have heard about this sort of treatment from otherwise educated people.
It's like they believe that God himself designed and approves of bigotry, discrimination, and prejudice which very clearly does a great deal of harm to people, and then promotes those evils as if coming from God. Many hold these beliefs out of ignorance, believing these faulty scriptural interpretations that are promoted (and only seem to be getting worse), but it's a very wicked thing and definitely a sign of our present evil age.
I've only ever encountered that level of inappropriate behaviour once from a minister, but it's very common from other men in church, judging by my own experiences in many churches over the years. One guy at a local Anglican church had a real reputation - I didn't go to that church, but he was a real pest at any united services - you always had to watch where he was. But get this - the last time he tried that on me, I jabbed him in the stomach really hard with my elbow...and three older women nearby told me I should apologise to him for my 'overreaction'. I wonder if women would have to experience so much of this type of behaviour if so many older ladies didn't have the 'just deal with it dear; it's part of being a woman' attitude.I suppose one question to ask the ladies in the thread in light of yesterday's ordeal with a Bishop groping a female celebrity at a funeral of all places... is that something that's common?
I can't tell if he's so incredibly stupid to think he'd get away with it or so emboldened by unchallenged experience to not care?
It was pretty awkward to watch and I feel so sorry for her. You could see how uncomfortable she was.