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Don't try too hard, as the opposite usually happens when you try to be positive. I'll give you some tips...
When a negative situation happens (something annoys you, etc) respond in a positive way. Make it so this person annoying you is a good thing. Make the traffic jam slowing you down something you appreciate. Don't even try that hard, just let it happen.
When a negative thought comes your way try to ignore it. That will stop it. But of course some thoughts are hard to ignore, so if you can't do that, then laugh in its face. You can usually stop negative situations by 'shocking' the situation. Basically doing the opposite of what the situation would call for. So laughing like a loon at a negative thought will make that thought run away as it will be confused.
Thanks. : )
A lot of helpful tips I haven't thought of.
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