church groups, co-workers, co-worker friends, meet-up groups
One problem I'm running into is groups I'm trying are having a very bad man-to-woman ratio. Not sure where women hang, but it's evidently not church groups or meet-up groups.
For example, I tried an anxiety meet-up group this past summer, 7 men, 2 women (1 of the women queer, the other woman in a relationship). I want to try going to it again (I believe a woman that goes to my parent's church that I go to occasionally also goes to that group sometimes), but they stopped meeting when the weather got bad & they can't meet at a park outside anymore.
A church group me & my best friend have been going to for a few years now has an even worse ratio, 12-3, men-women.
I tried another church group a couple years ago. The ratio was better, but it wasn't a good fit. My voice got drowned out. I can't talk loud like they can w/out sounding like I'm yelling like I'm angry. Everyone was super-hyper in that group. I tried that group, from winter to Memorial Day weekend.