29 & Never Dated

[MehGuy]

You can't meet them after you graduate tho.

I wish someone had told me that.

Well alright.. I guess this reminds me why I started posting more and more exclusively in the kitchen sink section..

 

[DragonFox91]

Everything I was taught is wrong. I'm giving up.

Well alright.. I guess this reminds me why I started posting more and more exclusively in the kitchen sink section..

What?

It's true.

 

[Batya25]

Everything I was taught is wrong. I'm giving up.

What do you mean everything you were taught was wrong?

 

[DragonFox91]

What do you mean everything you were taught was wrong?

Put yourself out there & meet people & make friends
Work on yourself
Wait till after you graduate
Be yourself
Don't worry about it
It'll happen

for starters

 

[Batya25]

Put yourself out there
Work on yourself
Wait till after you graduate

for starters

Oh, gotcha. I myself have never dated or had a boyfriend, so wouldn't have any suggestions for you really. I see there's been a lot of discussion about this, most of which I've missed, but it sounds like you're struggling, so I hope things start working out for you as you seek God and this desire in your life.

 

[Sketcher]

"Put yourself out there"

I'd just stress to those in college & younger, work your tail off to find future wife when you're young, b/c when you get older, it ain't happening, you don't have a prayer. So whatever it may be: bars, church groups, school, extracurriculars, etc. Minute you graduate & your education is done, it's as good as done.

I've had several friends in the last 10 years, all post-college, who met people and got married. Most of them are still married. However, it is easier to meet people when you're still in college, and I wish my college years were more productive in that area.

 

[bèlla]

Feelings aren’t facts. You may feel like quitting because you’re disheartened. But your posts on other threads tell a different story. Tell yourself the truth and affirm it daily.

I feel like giving up but I won’t. God is with me.

 

[Lost4words]

Trust in God

 

[bèlla]

Trust in God

Pup you’ve been missed. I hope you’re well.

 

[DragonFox91]

I've had several friends in the last 10 years, all post-college, who met people and got married. Most of them are still married. However, it is easier to meet people when you're still in college, and I wish my college years were more productive in that area.

How'd they meet?

 

[DragonFox91]

& then my grandma teases me & is like 'you should join a church group. You'll meet a girl there.'



& my dad says I need to try online dating
I don't have the guts to tell him it's useless

 

[Lost4words]

Pup you’ve been missed. I hope you’re well.

I am fine thanks. I got locked under the stairs for a couple of days!!

 

[bèlla]

I am fine thanks. I got locked under the stairs for a couple of days!!

Your owner should be thrashed! I’m happy to hear you’re back in the driver’s seat.

 

[Sketcher]

How'd they meet?

Through church and through dating sites.

 

[Lost4words]

Your owner should be thrashed! I’m happy to hear you’re back in the driver’s seat.

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As you can see, i wasnt too happy!

 

[bèlla]

As you can see, i wasnt too happy!

The nerve!

 

[DragonFox91]

Plus, I don't get why people are so reliant on dating sites. I feel like most people have a social circle large enough to fill a stadium.

Through church and through dating sites.

That's depressing. Dating sites are totally useless for me.

 

[Lost4words]

Plus, I don't get why people are so reliant on dating sites. I feel like most people have a social circle large enough to fill a stadium.


That's depressing. Dating sites are totally useless for me.

I only once went onto an online dating site. Never again!

There were some real dogs on there!

Woof!

 

[SarahsKnight]

There were some real dogs on there!

Woof!

 

[bèlla]

Plus, I don't get why people are so reliant on dating sites. I feel like most people have a social circle large enough to fill a stadium.

Volume. Just because you have a large circle doesn’t mean there’s a suitable prospect. Widening the net allows you to communicate with prospects you wouldn’t meet otherwise.