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men's issues

  1. Kevin-D.77

    Premarital Counseling... That big a deal?

    I am kind of torn on this one. A lot of people who I have talked to and seen online bring up starting premarital counseling almost immediately after entering into a serious relationship. I know that I would like to do it, and of course not at the very last second, but I'm not sure when to...
  2. Kevin-D.77

    Type B Man Dating a Type A Woman

    Good evening brothers and sisters in Christ. Reaching out just to hear others' input: I definitely have a Type B personality (flexible, low-stress levels, relaxed attitude, even-tempered, laid-back, tendency to procrastinate, patient) and I have always been attracted to women who exhibit Type A...
  3. bèlla

    GQ’s New Masculinity

    Welcome to GQ's New Masculinity issue, an exploration of the ways that traditional notions of masculinity are being challenged, overturned, and evolved. Feature article with Pharrell on Evolving Masculinity and Spiritual Warfare There were gender-fluid elements to the way you dressed long...
  4. W

    Pastor Asking My Wife to Meet?

    I'm graciously asking for advice on a struggle that I can't seem to shake. The background... My wife and I serve as volunteer ministry leaders in a church of about 200. We've been at the church for about 5 yrs. Our pastor started this church about 10 years ago. The pastor and I are fairly...
  5. bèlla

    Angry Men

    What are the root causes of male disenfranchisement? How do we help them manage their anger in a healthy way? How have you tackled this within yourself or with others? Please share your thoughts.
  6. sunestauromai

    My Father

    My father is so amazing! The longer I know him, the more I begin to see his love and his wisdom. My father doesn’t just dote on us kids. Certainly, he does plenty of that, but the depth of his love for all of us, plus his wisdom that is far above any human wisdom, won’t allow him to spoil us...
  7. sunestauromai

    What's New?

    Background I’ve been trusting Jesus Christ as both my savior and lord for a week now. Most of my life I thought I was a good Christian, but my lifestyle proclaimed a different story. I’ve written a good amount on my past life, which was steeped in sexual addiction and sinful habits, but some...
  8. sunestauromai

    How I Got Here

    Many years ago, my wife expressed to me that she thought I was following Satan in my life and I was headed to hell. As a good Christian man, so I thought, I was stunned and offended by such a bold and derogatory statement, and challenged her on it. Her evidence included my lifetime use of...