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friends failing

  1. Lanae

    How do I get my friends to talk to me after they're mad at me for things I do wrong?

    so every time I go off on friends' friends, or do or say something wrong, they would block me every where, tell everyone around them about what I said or did, make every one ignore me and I tried to find different ways to get them to talk to me and nothing worked. They don't have to ignore me...
  2. Lanae

    I have a question

    Do u think it’s rude when people never invite the new friend to hang out when the new friend just them for the first time? Like Korean American churches I went to, they never invited me to hang out with them after I met some people there. They should’ve asked about my hobbies and common...
  3. Lanae

    about some eavesdropping creep

    so this girl name G, I met at church used to be my brother in Christ J's girlfriend. Everytime I write to brother in christ about her and I seen his messages being read on fb messenger and i thought maybe he read it. so after I sent him a message about that she told me to stop texting her on...
  4. Lanae

    Stories about ghosting

    Can u tell me some stories go your new friend or close friend ghosting or you ghosting someone you just met and your close friend?
  5. Lanae

    What would you do if...?

    What would you do if someone meets you for the first time, asked you for your personal information and finds you on social media and add you? i guess that's the reason why people don't want to invite me because i asked for their person info and give them too much physical contact. the next...
  6. Lanae

    People at my church

    i feel like people from Harvesters dont care about me. They never invite me to hang out with them. Idk why these Asian want to just hang with other Asian people and ignore non-asians like they're playing favorites people. They never call me, message or nothing. It sounds like theyre being very...
  7. Lanae

    why do people get angry when..

    why do people get angry when someone threatens or hit on one of their close friends or family members? Every time they find out that someone threaten or hit on one of their close friend or family member, they would tell the person not to talk to them ever again. Hitting on and threatening...
  8. Lanae

    How do you get to know others outside of social media?

    How do you get to know others outside of social media?
  9. Lanae

    What would you do when someone you thought was a friend hurts your feelings?

    What would you do when someone you thought was a friend hurts your feelings?
  10. Lanae

    How do I get my Christian friends to get closer to me?

    Every time I don't hang out with others that much, they just ignore me, block me every where on Social media and ignore my messages social media, phone calls and text messages after they leave the church and all because I never spend time with them. I don't know what topic to talk about with...
  11. Lanae

    How do I get my Christian friends to get closer to me?

    Every time I don't hang out with others that much, they just ignore me, block me every where on Social media and ignore my messages social media, phone calls and text messages after they leave the church and all because I never spend time with them. I don't know what topic to talk about with...
  12. Lanae

    Contacting a friend I havent talked to in a long time

    every time I contact someone on kakao, or other social media, they block me or ignore me. I figured that we are not that close and one Asian girl cussed out me out all because I tried to contact her after I haven't talked to her on social media in a long time. Maybe I should just talk to...
  13. Heartofsilver

    When a woman of faith fails you

    I met my friend A years ago through a Christian organization at my junior college. We quickly became friends, she is a missionary, but we stayed in touch over the years. God later called me to a Christian university and it turned out that she went there. We were so excited to see each other...