People at my church

[Lanae]

i feel like people from Harvesters dont care about me. They never invite me to hang out with them. Idk why these Asian want to just hang with other Asian people and ignore non-asians like they're playing favorites people. They never call me, message or nothing. It sounds like theyre being very selfish

 

[Not David]

To be honest some Asians are like that at my college. Can you try to talk to a single person first?

 

[Lanae]

To be honest some Asians are like that at my college. Can you try to talk to a single person first?

I dont think i should ask an Asian that question bc they problably think im being rude

 

[Presbyterian Continuist]

i feel like people from Harvesters dont care about me. They never invite me to hang out with them. Idk why these Asian want to just hang with other Asian people and ignore non-asians like they're playing favorites people. They never call me, message or nothing. It sounds like theyre being very selfish

They sound as they are more religious than Christian. Do you think that this is the church for you? John says that those who do not love, do not know God for God is love.

 

[Lanae]

They sound as they are more religious than Christian. Do you think that this is the church for you? John says that those who do not love, do not know God for God is love.

What does it mean to be more religious than Christian? Idk if its the right church for me

 

[Not David]

I dont think i should ask an Asian that question bc they problably think im being rude

No, just talk to someone about anything you want.

 

[friend of]

Do they know you want to hang out with them? Did you ask?

 

[Lanae]

No, just talk to someone about anything you want.

Ok

 

[Lanae]

Do they know you want to hang out with them? Did you ask?

I did ask them to do some thin nice for me on social media and they ignored me. They never thought about inviting me to hang out

 

[Greg J.]

Odds are they are probably just doing what is comfortable for them and has nothing to do with you. This is almost guaranteed if they weren't born and raised in the same country you were.

I wouldn't expect them to do anything specific unless they know you want them to. Ask if they could invite you the next time they do X because you want to get to know them better. They very well may not want to invade your privacy or offend you (which might not stop even after getting to know them).

The way to make friends is to find someone that will talk to you and tell them about yourself while asking them about themselves. This can be awkward at first, but gets easier each time. Look for something you have in common. Ask them about their faith. After you have done this on several occasions, you should know something one or more of them enjoys, and you can ask if they would like to go do something they would enjoy with you.

In the end, they simply may be busy with life, comfortable with the friends they have, and have nothing to urge them to go through the awkwardness of fitting a new friend into their lives. You may have to look elsewhere. Persist in asking God to give you a faithful friend. Be sure to do your side of maintaining a good relationship if he gives you one.

 

[Lanae]

To be honest some Asians are like that at my college. Can you try to talk to a single person first?

How did they treat non-Asians there?

 

[Not David]

How did they treat non-Asians there?

They usually talk to you but they prefer other Asians, I don't know if they are originally from the US tho.

 

[Willie T]

An old man sat quietly rocking on his front porch when a young couple approached him.

“Sir”, the husband said, “We’re thinking of moving to this town, and wondered if you could give us an idea of what the people are like here.”

“Well”, the old man replied, “What were they like where you came from?”

Both the husband and wife enthusiastically answered that they were friendly, outgoing, and always ready to lend a helping hand.

“Yeah, they’re pretty much the same way here.”, said the old gent.

A few hours later another young couple drove up and they too asked the same question of the elderly man.

“Sir”, the husband said, “We’re thinking of moving to this town, and wondered if you could give us an idea of what the people are like here.”

“Well”, the old man replied, “What were they like where you came from?”

Both the husband and wife snapped back that “those people” were very unfriendly, secretive and reclusive, and never seemed to care a thing about anyone but themselves.

“Yeah, they’re pretty much the same way here.”, replied the old gent.

 

[DavidFirth]

Just go to a different church.

 

[Lanae]

They usually talk to you but they prefer other Asians, I don't know if they are originally from the US tho.

Most of them are from the US

 

[Godcrazy]

It's very hard alone, especially as single. I've seen the same thing. Unfortunately im in uk but im here, if you want