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because someone sins does NOT mean they are not christian. we all have low points in our spiritual walk.
As soon as I read this, I thought of the song, "how low can you go". Are you familiar with it? You see, we all sin and fall short of the glory of God (from scripture). I do, you do and so does everyone else. Like JoyfulBeliever has stated, repentance and turning away from your sin is key in the Christian life. Showing one face to one group of people, and then another (which is comforming to the world according to Paul) to a separate group of people is quite another. Know what I'm saying?

i guess my biggest problem with this is that one can be homosexual and celebate. they are repenting and making a change. they are not acting on the desires in their heart. but people still see that they are gay and treat them as dirty sinners.


Who's treating them as dirty sinners or is that just an assumption? I don't treat them as "dirty sinners". I and many others simply adhere to the infallibility of God's Word.

we all sin. all of us. some of us are better at hiding our sins from the world so no one can hold us accountable. thats what this is going to do.
Isn't that the truth! That's what I've been witnessing myself as of late. So you agree with accountability BigToe? Really? I sure do. I've been held accountable in the past, and it's made me a better person for it.

it is going to make people stay in the closet and hide themselvs and thier sins from you. not stop them from doing it.
It's not within my power to change a perons lifestyle. That is what accountability is for. I'm not another person's Holy Spirit. I can preach, plead and beg, but unless there's a change of heart it is to no avail. For example, I could be slandered and shredded verbally by a person, but that is to no avail as far as their change of heart towards me unless convicted by the Holy Spirit that they have been misled and misguided. Whether or not they listen to the Holy Spirit is not my responsibility, but theirs. The same goes for homosexuals. I can preach, plead and beg, but there won't be a change unless the Holy Spirit pricks their conscience and they begin the very hard road of repentance.
 
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Blindfaith said:
Who's treating them as dirty sinners or is that just an assumption? I don't treat them as "dirty sinners". I and many others simply adhere to the infallibility of God's Word.

Right and as sinners we are to repent, which means changing and not acting on those sinful desires as you guys have said. My point is, someone is gay whether they act on it or not. You don't have to treat them as sinners, but allowing one who has repented from their sin to not be allowed to be a leader is doing just that. Leading a celebate life is sure a sign of change to me. Doesn't mean they aren't attracted to the same sex anymore, they just aren't acting on it. Same as a heterosexual person being celebate.
 
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BigToe said:
Right and as sinners we are to repent, which means changing and not acting on those sinful desires as you guys have said. My point is, someone is gay whether they act on it or not. You don't have to treat them as sinners, but allowing one who has repented from their sin to not be allowed to be a leader is doing just that. Leading a celebate life is sure a sign of change to me. Doesn't mean they aren't attracted to the same sex anymore, they just aren't acting on it. Same as a heterosexual person being celebate.

I agree with everything you have said here! :wave:
 
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I want to know what makes a person repentant? If we just keep sinnning (all those "little" sins) and asking for forgiveness do they add up?

Why is that so different than an active homosexual in th eyes of the Lord, at least if a hmosexual is in a monogamous realtionship and (if such a relationship is sin) and not repenting they are not just repenting for the same sin over and over. I would think that God gorws tired of hearing forgive me Lord becuase I did X and thne two days later it is forgive Lord becuase I did Y then two days forgive me Lord because I did Z and next week the cycle starts all over. At lthe very least there is a lack of hypocracy.
 
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Outside of marriage all sex is sin, and all sex related sin is equal. I have answered your question, I answered it in the post above. There is a very simple method of determining if what we are talking about is sin: Does the Bible say it is sin? Yes. Are there specific words on it in the New Testament? Yes. The truth of God's word does not change as society changes, no matter what society accepts; what God accepts does not change. His truth is everlasting and this truth is for all generations. God is not concerned with Gallup poll opinion, in fact even if the whole human race accepted something sinful, God would not change his mind on the matter. God's mind is not subject to the whims of the human race, and scripture is valid from one generation to the next regardless of what each generation accepts and what it does not.
This is still only a politicians answer. If it were as you say then we would not be constantly debating the question of homosexuality. We would be debating sexuality, without internal discrimination as to hetero-, or homo-.
When you shuffle the question sideways, and without having answered, into the question of marriage: then you must be pursued there.
You seem to answer the question I ask: by saying that homosexuals cannot marry, therefore thier sexual consumation, remaining outside marriage, must be sinful.
So we then must ask, can homosexuals marry: and cleave to God, and follow Jesus, and be no more sin burdened than the rest of us. You have just kicked the question into long grass, by shuffling it into a question of marriage, that was not being raised. And you still have given no answers.
So, can you accept the marriage of homosexuals? For that is now the ground on which you award peculiar sin to homosexuals. Withhold marriage, and you leave the homosexual in sin, by your light. Extend marriage, and homosexual consumation is no more sin, by your light.
So the question becomes why you do, or do not extend marriage to homosexuals.
What you say on what the Bible says, and how you understand the unchanging, and the degree to which you spurn the views of humanity: are all alien to me; to where it is hard for me not to become impatient, and simply say that you are wrong.
I think that in practical and Christian terms you are wrong: autistically and anachronistically so; where such perspective places the human project, I believe, in great peril.
However, that is my pragmatism and my prejudice, my Christian politics if you like. And I understand that God is such that your path must also have purpose, even if I cannot immediately see that purpose: where, and just for me as an earth bound ego, I see only limited and marginal use for literal and fundamental approach to the truth the Bible contains ans serves.
This difference we have, that I here skate over, is our most important, and one I would like to return to: but right now, I'm too tired, its Brit 1am; I would not do anyhting justice, if i were to write further.
Thank's for keeping coming back on this: it helps me forward; I find it a titanic and all consuming matter, to articulate my faith through what is currently happening in the human project. It constantly threatens to just crush me, and bury my faith: but, every morning, there is just enough of a tickle; to get the faith show on the road, for another day.
 
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Sin is not determined by sociology - it is determined by God and the best indication of what God sees as sin is in God's book, the Bible. Sexual sin of any sort, because it involves two people becoming one in the eyes of God may well be more serious than other kinds of sin.
In this contention, is a clever lengerdemain: where you skate over the matter, that any understanding of the Bible, is always someones understanding; which leaves us with a diversity of views. You reduce all that to only one view, your own: which then by default becomes God's view; and then absolute. You make your own view absolute: you displace God with yourself.
I do not think you have read what I said about sociology. I spoke of an ontology of sin, with a crucial purpose of sustaining a people within God's covenant. I think your paraphrase does no justice to this.
Aagin, what you say of sexuality, is a politicians answer: we ask questions about homosexuality, why have some made it such an issue, such an issue of peculiar sin; and you do not address that.
Not to address, is not to answer.
 
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I can preach, plead and beg, but there won't be a change unless the Holy Spirit pricks their conscience and they begin the very hard road of repentance.
You confuse the work of your own stand before God: with what might give succour to another in their own stance before God.
All that you can give to another, is the example of your own faith, your own repentance: if you manifest God, if you are medium for the love of Jesus; then that manifestation, and that love, is what can succour, move, and redemptively change people.
All the other stuff, all the perspectives you draw from the Bible, are all in-house instruments of your own cleaving: to rant at someone else in their terms is, while understandable, and as you say, not going to achieve anyhting.
I still feel your general approach is too autistically insular: the metier of all this God work, need not be so exclusively dependant on the holy spirit; where there is much safety in Christian ministry, in bringing God work more into the fabric of the every day. Jesus does just this, where he works very much through the metier of immediate neighbourliness: and, crucially, displays what can be done by the earth bound individual; where I understand the following of Jesus, to entail that we continue, as best we can, with this earth bound, and individually grounded ministry.
Here, a literal and somewhat exclusive dependancy on the Bible, can see a spurning of all these other God given resources, such as the perspectives of the humanities and the social sciences.
I am not too comfortable with what I sense you mean by repentance: where I fear it might take the Christian too readily from their neighbour; and thereby away from the redemptive following of Jesus.
Again thankyou for continuing with this thread: for although you might think I solely abuse you in what I say; in fact you are allowing me to define myself in some distinction.
 
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Right and as sinners we are to repent, which means changing and not acting on those sinful desires as you guys have said.
Have you and do you repent Big Toe? Not of homosexuality, but of the other sins that you commit against not others but against God? Because when we sin, it's not only against those who we hurt, but it's against the God who has created us.
 
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Nobody has the right and/or authority to judge us except the Almighty God, who is even bigger than all of the leaders, prime ministers, kings and queens, and even the President of the United States.
 
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Existential,

My views are not merely my own. I don't rely upon my own understanding in discerning what God is saying through His Word. Am I a human being that makes mistakes? Absolutely. But the difference between me and some others is that I will admit to that, instead of being so self-righteous in their arguments.

God is the same yesterday, today and in the future. His Word does NOT change to suit the needs of others. The scripture is very clear. I'm not going to burden people in typing out 10 paragraphs to support my position. If you want mass-scripture and opinion, I can supply it, as could many others here.

One thing that I disagree with is this statement;

I still feel your general approach is too autistically insular: the metier of all this God work, need not be so exclusively dependant on the holy spirit;
You couldn't be more wrong from the standpoint of one who is a bible-believing, Holy Spirit-listening Christian. I KNOW when the Holy Spirit is speaking to me, therefore I am dependant on the One who knows better than I. If I start thinking that my way is better than his? That's when I start getting myself into trouble. Most obviously there are those that do not think this way, which is really too bad in my way of thinking because they're missing out on a full, rich life.

Here, a literal and somewhat exclusive dependancy on the Bible, can see a spurning of all these other God given resources, such as the perspectives of the humanities and the social sciences.
Again, I disagree. My dependancy on the Bible does not exclude my ability in enjoying an incredibly rich life in all ways, shape and form! What you have stated seems like an oxymoron to me; "literal and somewhat exclusive dependancy on the Bible - spurning of all these other God given resources". Where do you think the God given resources come from! It comes from God, and the Holy Spirit inspired Bible. God gave us a handbook for life, called the Bible, which explains the "humanities and social sciences". How many more examples and stories does one need?
 
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Blindfaith said:
Have you and do you repent Big Toe? Not of homosexuality, but of the other sins that you commit against not others but against God? Because when we sin, it's not only against those who we hurt, but it's against the God who has created us.

Yes thanks, when God reveals sin in my life I pray over it and work on my sins with his help and those who I ask to help hold me accountable, thanks for your concern. But this thread has nothing to do wtih me. My point was that we shouldn't punish those who have repented and prohibit them from serving God in the ways in which He calls them. And yes, that includes homosexuals who lead a celebate life but are still homosexuals. They have repented from the "sin" and have changed their lives.
 
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Blindfaith said:
.As soon as I read this, I thought of the song, "how low can you go". Are you familiar with it? You see, we all sin and fall short of the glory of God (from scripture). I do, you do and so does everyone else. Like JoyfulBeliever has stated, repentance and turning away from your sin is key in the Christian life. Showing one face to one group of people, and then another (which is comforming to the world according to Paul) to a separate group of people is quite another. Know what I'm saying?
oh come on now, blindfaith. why not come right out and say what you mean. if you have something to say, why not pm her, or come on over. or would you prefer to hide here behind the protection of your precious and convenient rules?
 
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So back to the question of how can we disagree over this issue and remain together in fellowship. Do you remember Tony Campolo--a Christian author and evangelist? He and his wife disagree on the very issue under discussion. They wrote this article together as a witness that people can differ strongly about this and not separate. It was written some time ago, but I still find it quite relevant.

[url]http://www.sojo.net/index.cfm?action=magazine.article&issue=soj9905&article=990521[/url]
 
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I wonder how people have come to the conclussion that the gay lifestyle is not a sin.
Everyone knows the bible is clear that fornication is a common sin, in both the new and old scriptures. Meaning the actual word is in both, unlike the word gay, or anything like that.

So the most one can conclude of this, is it can only be done through marriage, gay marrianges.
Is that the stand some believers are taking? Or are they saying other wise?
 
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mpshiel said:
Yup, and all 20 different denominations and "true" churches would love to tell you the "correct" interpretation.

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Good thing we have topics like those above that all the denominations agree on using the same scriptures.
You forgot the most critical part that changes the whole meaning of your statement. The Bible very clearly states Born Again :)
 
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Blindfaith said:
You couldn't be more wrong from the standpoint of one who is a bible-believing, Holy Spirit-listening Christian. I KNOW when the Holy Spirit is speaking to me, therefore I am dependant on the One who knows better than I.

Can you explain something for me?

When you say you KNOW when the Holy Spirit is speaking to you, and someone else says he KNOWS when the Holy Spirit is speaking to him, but you disagree on what the Holy Spirit has said, what conclusion should I draw?

If the answer is that I should listen to the Holy Spirit, what should I conclude if I do so, and find that I am told that you are wrong?

It seems as though there is at least one person who claims this degree of total certainty about God's will, but who is mistaken. How can I tell whether or not I am one of those people?
 
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I think we need to remember that homosexuals need to repent extra. They are both going against nature and engaging in acts that are immoral. Heterosexuals, however, (IMO) only sin half as much as homosexuals as they are doing something natural.

We need to remind gays that they are worse off than us and I don't see how anyone can disagree with that. This whole, "we're all sinners" business is complete nonsense.
 
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Blindfaith said:
Have you and do you repent Big Toe?

I hate to say this, but I don't see how anyone is a state of moral clarity can take such a seemingly apathetic approach to homosexuality. If you hate sin, you hate sin and would never want to see anyone else suffer by it. You would be fierce in condemning it, not pretending like it is no big deal.
 
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David Waffen said:
I hate to say this, but I don't see how anyone is a state of moral clarity can take such a seemingly apathetic approach to homosexuality. If you hate sin, you hate sin and would never want to see anyone else suffer by it. You would be fierce in condemning it, not pretending like it is no big deal.

Just wondering, are you out there condemning remarriage after a divorce?

Leviticus 18:10
"If there is a man who commits adultery with another man's wife, one who commits adultery with his friend's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death."

Take note that this is the same exact punishment as is elsewhere prescribed for homosexuals. With that in mind, let's review a few more verses.

It's to be noted that Jesus himself has no recorded words on homosexuality in the New Testament, but he strongly condemns remarriage after a divorce, equating it with adultery.

Matthew 19:8-12
"Jesus replied, 'Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.'"

Here, we see Jesus explaining that God does not recognize divorce unless spousal infidelity was the cause. Hence, since in the eyes of God you're still married to your former partner, remarriage after a divorce (and the subsequent sexual relations) qualifies as adultery!

1 Corinthians 6:9-10
"Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God."

In the same exact verse used by fundies to condemn homosexuals, Paul condemns adulterers with equal, if not greater, words. In fact, they merit a mention sooner into the passage than the word normally translated as 'homosexuals'.

But with Jesus' earlier words equating remarriage to adultery, it would seem that Paul's damnation would include quite a lot of people. No doubt, many of you know everyone from friends and relatives to pastors who've divorced and remarried for non-infidelity reasons.

Since the Bible unambigously condemns remarriage after divorce, with Jesus actually commenting on it (not just Paul and the Old Testament), a few questions immediately come to mind.

Where are the bigoted misinformation campaigns? Where's GodHatesDivorcees.com ? Where are all those ministries encouraging people to abandon their happy, fulfilling and productive relationships because they're living in sin? Where are the proposed laws banning divorcees from marrying? How many people have been thrown out of church for remarrying?

The answer, of course, is that we've outgrown that silliness (for the most part). Much as the Bible is no longer used to support slavery, or discrimination against people of color, so were anti-divorce laws struck down and the verses clearly condemning it reinterpreted according to changing social norms. It will happen with homosexuality too, because misinformation, alienation and hate over a set of vague diatribes from an old book can only work for so long before sanity takes over.

However, for the time being, it would appear that, for some, hypocritically attacking and demonizing a minority is much easier than addressing a sin running rampant throughout their own congregations. After all, doing the latter would alienate alot of people in their own congregations--contributing, tithing members too!
 
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Well this is off-topic, but I'll take a crack at it, seebs....


seebs said:
When you say you KNOW when the Holy Spirit is speaking to you, and someone else says he KNOWS when the Holy Spirit is speaking to him, but you disagree on what the Holy Spirit has said, what conclusion should I draw?

That one is right and the other isn't. If the Holy Spirit is speaking in accordance with Scripture than how might they be conflicting?

If the answer is that I should listen to the Holy Spirit, what should I conclude if I do so, and find that I am told that you are wrong?

As I mentioned above.

It seems as though there is at least one person who claims this degree of total certainty about God's will, but who is mistaken. How can I tell whether or not I am one of those people?

As I mentioned above again.
 
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