Single forever?

dayhiker said:

First there are very few guys that are on dating sites to hurt women.
Its also well know that a woman meets in a public place and limits the info that will allow him to trace where the woman lives.
Where I live people (in the activities I'm doing) are meeting lots of other people. There is no violence that I'm hearing about.
I see people I know out over and over plus the new people that show up. If a new woman wants to know about someone, others are glad to tell them if there are any bad reports about them. But the worse I've heard is once in a great while someone walks out without paying their bill.

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Lybrah said:

I am in my forties and never been married, or in a long term relationship. Everyone I've wanted never wanted me, and vice versa. The hardest thing is that when I go on dates, I don't fall in love by the third date. Men are expecting to fool around at least, but I don't want that yet. I feel like I would have to get to know a man very well in order to fall in love, and I can't do that with most men because they want instant relationship. I am beginning to think that God wants me to be alone, and it is so sad watching everyone else I know get married.

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