This is quite the strawman. The issue isn't God's lack of wisdom, or strength, or any other attribute. It's the depth of the wickedness of some men's hearts, such that the more they know of God the more their enmity increases. It's one thing to hope for the salvation of all men, and to preach that God desires all men to be saved. It's another thing entirely to teach it. Particularly when that teaching involves twisting passages that make clear statements about the eternality of the wicked's punishment, and the finality of the second death. Do you think God allowed the authors of the Bible to waste ink talking about something that He has ensured could not possibly happen?
Your assumption is different than mine, you assume that man's will can thwart Gods will, you are lifting man above God, you think that a man has ability to outlast God.
" It's the depth of the wickedness of some men's hearts, such that the more they know of God the more their enmity increases " That is the straw man, if someone has ever had a encounter with the living God/Jesus/Spirit, once you experience his love you can't resist it long. The more they have religion and a false god crammed down their throat of coarse their enmity will increase.
You trust in mans ability to resist Gods love, I believe that God's love is more powerful than mans stubborn heart, and when anyone has a true encounter with God, they may resist for a while but God will win them over in the end.
In all the scripture that you say UR twists not once is eternal used, the Greek word for eternal is Aidios, do you not believe that the authors of scripture did not know what they were writing? If they wanted something to mean eternal they would have used Aidios, but instead they used aionion, which is not eternal but it modifies the subject, so when speaking of the believers having aionios zoen, because that life is in Jesus and he is eternal so is the life, now kolasin aionion, is the punishment of the age, it pertains to that age and that age has a beginning and an end, so the punishment has a beginning and an end when the punishment has brought about its purpose.
The real strawman is, the idea that God would create a world, that he says he loves and that includes all humanity, and he will torture forever all those who do not get it correct, while looking at things with a sickness of sin that keeps them blind to the truth, that is a strawman.
The idea that scripture is correct when it says its Gods will that none should perish is God telling us his will, that is not a strawman.
It seems that you put your faith in man and his ability to thwart God and his plan, I put my trust in God and his ability to win all over through his love, which is stronger than mans diluted mind.
It all comes back to you view of God, is he a loving Father, as Jesus demonstrates, that will stop at nothing till all his sheep are found, or is he like the Greek or Roman gods that view humanity as nothing but problem that has gone wrong and at least some can be saved if they jump through the correct hoops and muster up enough faith to get in, the rest get what they deserve, torture forever for not getting in line.