- Dec 13, 2015
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Ok so this morning I went to Church for the first time since early November. I basically got the open door salute it was a tad embarrassing. The head elder and I are the best of friends so he had to get the whole church to welcome my wife and I back. He pulled me aside at the end of the service and told me that the church can help with gas now that I'm recovering and to put it in his words "Don't let gas stop you from attending church." I was going to only attend once a month because of gas prices and that was all I could afford.
So I followed his advice and just sent an email to our head deacon. To be honest I regret sending it. Why? Well, because I feel bad.
I feel bad accepting money from the church because they just gave me $500 to get me home when I was hospitalized in New Hampshire a month ago and there was another time they gave me $200 because my wife had lost her food stamps for a while. I can't keep taking the churches money but I just cant afford to drive an hour there and back once a week so I'm in a pickle. I know church attendance is very important and now that I'm well enough I should go but, it feels like I'm stealing money from the church and from those who need it a lot more than I do. Don't get me wrong, I'm poor. But, I'm not so poor I'm homeless, starving, or in desperate need of money. I don't know, maybe I should swallow my pride and just take the money. But, it just feels so wrong. Can anyone relate or direct me into a good path?
So I followed his advice and just sent an email to our head deacon. To be honest I regret sending it. Why? Well, because I feel bad.
I feel bad accepting money from the church because they just gave me $500 to get me home when I was hospitalized in New Hampshire a month ago and there was another time they gave me $200 because my wife had lost her food stamps for a while. I can't keep taking the churches money but I just cant afford to drive an hour there and back once a week so I'm in a pickle. I know church attendance is very important and now that I'm well enough I should go but, it feels like I'm stealing money from the church and from those who need it a lot more than I do. Don't get me wrong, I'm poor. But, I'm not so poor I'm homeless, starving, or in desperate need of money. I don't know, maybe I should swallow my pride and just take the money. But, it just feels so wrong. Can anyone relate or direct me into a good path?