- Dec 13, 2015
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I hate making a multitude of threads but this time I have a REALLY odd prayer request. I dont expect anyone to have pity on her because of what she is and what she did, but I just found out that my ex girlfriend is in prison again until 2023 at the very least. This will be her second time spending time in prison. Her first arrest was because she slept with a 15 year old boy and a 17 year old boy (the 17 year old was a crime in New York the age of consent here is 18 so she was a level 1 sex offender at the time) she also got charged wuth endangering the welfare of the child that she was pregnant with while we were dating (it wasnt mine. It was her previous boyfriends, I was a virgin up until about a year after I met my wife) she served 2 years in prison for those crimes and got out early for good behavior and was probationed for idk how many years. When she got out in 2013 I was highly tempted to contact her and ask her out again. I didnt meet and fall in love with my wife until the year after. But for some reason? I stayed away from her. I cried my eyes out and I couldnt stop. It was one of the lowest moments of my life and I regretted it but I figured the best thing to do was to stay away from her. That November was when Christ called me and I welcomed him with open arms. 3 months later God answered my sorrows and introduced me to my wife.
Anyway, shes in prison again for sleeping with yet again another teenager a 16 year old this time she was 30 at the time which made me more creeped out than last time I heard tbch. The "couple" stole a car together afterwards and went on a joy ride. My ex then stole a gun and threatened the cops with it prior to her arrest but did not fire and eventually dropped the gun.
I just found all this out less than an hour ago by trying to look up her previous arrest because I was "curious" about it and wanted to read it again.
Tbch i have mixed feelings about this and I should hate her. I should stay away from her... especially now that I'm married but all I want to do is hug her again and tell her everything's going to be okay. I want to be her friend again. I dont want to go down the emotional rollercoaster that was our relationship again we did NOT break up on such good terms. It was such a horrible breakup that I tell most people who ask that i was glad that she ended our relationship. But Tbch? I was devastated. I wanted to keep dating her and I thought that I could improve her life.
She was friends with me for several years after. Until about 5 years before her first "incident".
I was going to link her arrest and trial so people could read it for themselves and maybe either feel disgust for her (she is sick but clearly she isnt going to stop and is going to keep sleeping with teenagers) or idk... pity. I feel nothing but pity for her because she was my friend and my companion for so long and I at one time, loved her so much and Tbch? Wanted to marry her. I wonder now, if I married her whether or not she would have had much of a better life. Because her entire life she was in and out of mental hospitals. That's how she spent her childhood. She suffered from the same mental health issues I developed later in life pretty much. She was schizophrenic, I'm schizophrenic. She had a really bad past, I did as well. I fell for that girl long and hard for several years before I got the courage to ask her out. If i fought for my relationship and told her i loved her and i wanted to stay together would she have listened? Can i improve her life now? Can i help her find Christ? I... want to know. I want to contact her.
But even if I become friends with her when shes incarcerated. That would only spell disaster wouldnt it? Wouldnt I be tempted to cheat on my wife with a woman I've almost always had romantic attraction for? A woman I loved so deeply for so long? Tbch before I met my wife I never really got over her. I didnt date for so many years because I secretly hoped we would get back together.
I know. Shes a rapist shes a pedophile in most persons standards (shes not theres a different title for her but nobody would care anyway so I'll just call her a pedo too like everyone else.)
So why am I asking for prayers on this? Idk God told me to would be the stupidest reason. But I guess I was also hoping people could pray for a better life for the woman who had no life. I wanted to be the guy who lead her to a better life but clearly God doesnt want that. So maybe someone else can pray with me. I want her to find Christ. I want her to be happy. I want her to find a man our age who can repair the broken parts of her life that I tried so hard to do myself and never could. I want her out of prison and mental hospitals and just... to have a life for crying out loud. Because prison? Ain't no life. I think she stole the gun because she didnt want to go back to prison. To me that's clear but idk what made her drop the gun. Maybe she is just a psychopath after all. Or maybe she was thinking about the small bits of happiness she had with me. Who knows.
Anyway, shes in prison again for sleeping with yet again another teenager a 16 year old this time she was 30 at the time which made me more creeped out than last time I heard tbch. The "couple" stole a car together afterwards and went on a joy ride. My ex then stole a gun and threatened the cops with it prior to her arrest but did not fire and eventually dropped the gun.
I just found all this out less than an hour ago by trying to look up her previous arrest because I was "curious" about it and wanted to read it again.
Tbch i have mixed feelings about this and I should hate her. I should stay away from her... especially now that I'm married but all I want to do is hug her again and tell her everything's going to be okay. I want to be her friend again. I dont want to go down the emotional rollercoaster that was our relationship again we did NOT break up on such good terms. It was such a horrible breakup that I tell most people who ask that i was glad that she ended our relationship. But Tbch? I was devastated. I wanted to keep dating her and I thought that I could improve her life.
She was friends with me for several years after. Until about 5 years before her first "incident".
I was going to link her arrest and trial so people could read it for themselves and maybe either feel disgust for her (she is sick but clearly she isnt going to stop and is going to keep sleeping with teenagers) or idk... pity. I feel nothing but pity for her because she was my friend and my companion for so long and I at one time, loved her so much and Tbch? Wanted to marry her. I wonder now, if I married her whether or not she would have had much of a better life. Because her entire life she was in and out of mental hospitals. That's how she spent her childhood. She suffered from the same mental health issues I developed later in life pretty much. She was schizophrenic, I'm schizophrenic. She had a really bad past, I did as well. I fell for that girl long and hard for several years before I got the courage to ask her out. If i fought for my relationship and told her i loved her and i wanted to stay together would she have listened? Can i improve her life now? Can i help her find Christ? I... want to know. I want to contact her.
But even if I become friends with her when shes incarcerated. That would only spell disaster wouldnt it? Wouldnt I be tempted to cheat on my wife with a woman I've almost always had romantic attraction for? A woman I loved so deeply for so long? Tbch before I met my wife I never really got over her. I didnt date for so many years because I secretly hoped we would get back together.
I know. Shes a rapist shes a pedophile in most persons standards (shes not theres a different title for her but nobody would care anyway so I'll just call her a pedo too like everyone else.)
So why am I asking for prayers on this? Idk God told me to would be the stupidest reason. But I guess I was also hoping people could pray for a better life for the woman who had no life. I wanted to be the guy who lead her to a better life but clearly God doesnt want that. So maybe someone else can pray with me. I want her to find Christ. I want her to be happy. I want her to find a man our age who can repair the broken parts of her life that I tried so hard to do myself and never could. I want her out of prison and mental hospitals and just... to have a life for crying out loud. Because prison? Ain't no life. I think she stole the gun because she didnt want to go back to prison. To me that's clear but idk what made her drop the gun. Maybe she is just a psychopath after all. Or maybe she was thinking about the small bits of happiness she had with me. Who knows.