My girlfriend and I are pretty proud of the fact that we are able to make our own choices in Christ based on our relationship with Him and each other. We both have heard everything under the sun...and just like God himself said, "There's nothing new under the sun." (Ecclesiastes 1:9)
We can't go through out life fearing the judgement of others, even other Christians. So basically forget what others think of you, and only focus on how God sees you.