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Recent content by kittycat7

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    Default Pornography block, and Rape Porn Ban

    As long as no one is actually raped during the making of rape porn ... who cares?? I don't think the government has any right to stop people from doing things that don't directly hurt others. EDIT: Actually, I realized that's not true. I do think that beastiality and things like that should be...
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    Abortion is a Win-Win Scenario.

    That's like saying serial killing is not so bad because the victims are freed from the cares of this world.
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    The Lone Ranger

    Glad to hear you guys liked it. The trailer looked good, I've been meaning to call up my friend and ask if she wants to go.
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    Drug Issue Advice.

    I don't know if I think drug use is a sin or not. The Bible does say some negative things about alcohol, but then it also says that Jesus drank wine, so ... I'm leaning towards "not." However, the Bible also says to obey the government, and marijuana is illegal in a lot of places. I do think...
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    I know this is weird but how do I get over this?

    Um ... do you understand the difference between love and lust? When I was in love I masturbated less, NEVER to thoughts of him because that just seemed really disrespectful. I hope you would never marry someone just because you think they're hot (and modestly dressed).
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    The 'organic' dilemma.

    Organic is sustainable and population growth is starting to taper off.
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    Your advice to the opposite sex

    Please don't lie to her. Ever. If you are insecure, don't cover it up with false confidence. Let things develop organically. It's good to be the boss but not to be bossy (don't micromanage her life). On the flip side, don't let her walk all over you either.
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    Women and bad boys

    I guess it is a subject for another thread. :sorry: Men can be feminine in positive ways (i.e. sensitive, gentle) or ways that are neutral (passive, submissive) but I guess I would say that a man is being feminine in a negative way if he is manipulative, whiny, or insecure. If I wanted to...
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    Women and bad boys

    A lot of guys who think they're "nice" are really uptight, feminine, manipulative, and controlling. At least the bad boys are fun (until they start beating you).
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    Would you smoke pot if it were legal?

    Perhaps. I'd be more likely to put it in brownies though. Human lungs aren't built to absorb smoke. From a moral perspective (though not a health perspective) I think all drugs are basically the same thing. Whether it's caffeine or crystal meth, you're consuming a substance that messes up...
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    if the holy spirit I got doesn't love me at all, Will he leave me?

    But there is only one Holy Spirit...:confused: Are you saying you think you might be possessed or something? I think you should go to a pastor, he'll be able to help you more than strangers on the internet.
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    Why people believe in hell

    Same reason people believe in karma. When you see people doing wrong things, it's comforting to think that they will be punished, whether in this life or the next.