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Recent content by BlueJ

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    So what degree or degrees are you going for..

    Anthropology Major, specializing in Biology and Chemistry: Minor: None - Been a tough 3 1/2 years but it's pretty good experience. Aim to become physician Assistant :)
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    If the written word of God defines homosexuality as a sin...

    Romans 1:27 "And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burning in their lust one toward another, men with man working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet. " [] Note: that in the first few chapters of Romans...
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    Do animals come to heaven?

    I believe that animals do go to heaven, however not all animals. In the begining God created the heavens and earth. God created the sea and filled it with fish and other sea creatures. So then God created other animals and then beast and wild animals. If you read the bible carefully, I can...
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    How do you take notes?

    Most of my note taking is by hand. I like to create my own cods and write down question that I can either find my self or ask the professor. Now, typing notes can be helpful. But I live on New York, and I don't feel safe with my laptop exposed on the subway. I can just wipe out my not books and...
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    Marriage directly after college?

    Well, who's to judge whether or not a relationship will work out or not or whether the couple is meant to be married. I believe that getting married after college is not such a bad idea. For one, at least they have a goal in life in terms of finishing college and pursuing their careers. I...
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    College Students: How do you feel today?

    I feel great. I've been working for 2 weeks so I'm pretty tied as well. I have to be on my feet for hours, but I'm getting used to it. I've been studying for my OAT test and MCAT, which is nice because I enjoy reading anyways. As long as I'm productive and making progress which means moving...
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    Already lusted, so it is OK to have SEX?

    I agree with you 100%. I have been reading about the usage of the word “lust” and have gotten the correct meaning on the terminology. So the issue now is not the issue it was before, it’s about them going around believing in that nonsense. I have to convince or persuade them that they’re wrong...
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    Already lusted, so it is OK to have SEX?

    Now that you’d mentioned it, yes. During his first 2 years of high school he was a pretty good kid. He will preach about God to his friends without feeling any shame. His teachers loved him, however kids in school start teasing him calling him a fake Christian and other terrible words of that...
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    Already lusted, so it is OK to have SEX?

    Well, my brother is 22 and his friend is 21. They are both very smart, but very prideful. they both graduated from aviation high school with a high GPA. So , yes it seems that strange that they would say these things. Note that 5 years ago my brother probably would have not said this.
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    Already lusted, so it is OK to have SEX?

    Pretty good. I just might see into that.
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    Already lusted, so it is OK to have SEX?

    Believe me when I tell you that I was very shock when I had that discussion. I have NEVER had that kind of discussion which seemed like a debate, specifically with a person who believe in God and reads the bible. Before this day I never thought seriously about the connection btw thoughts and...
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    Already lusted, so it is OK to have SEX?

    I 100% agree with this. The issue is me having to defend what I believe in. The person of which I was discussing it with believes that lust (sexual thoughts) and physical intimacy is the same as having sex or that a virgin is no better than a lustful person who engages in physical intimacy such...
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    Already lusted, so it is OK to have SEX?

    This is good too. I have read this several times before. This is what I was referring to when I wrote about having a personal relationship with God as well with one man or women of the opposite sex, and of course in marriage. If someone has had sexual act in an absence of marriage it is a...
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    Already lusted, so it is OK to have SEX?

    I want to show him some of these comments to shed some light on the subject, but sadly I don’t think it would help. He is naive and very contradictory on spiritual subjects. Everyday we talk about God and the discussion eventually leads to a heated debate. I feel that he is in competition with...