HI Kristy!! We're gonna miss you on staff!! Ok, back on topic...my best friend is 30 years old and still single. He's a good looking guy with a great job at GM and a architect degree from Lawrence Tech. He is trying to break into the architect business, but is having a hard time finding jobs like the rest of Michigan. He's the most "Christian" and respectable man I know with many females swooning after him, but he's taking his time. He has watched all of his friends from high school and college immediately get married and EVERY single marriage is having terrible difficulties almost to the point of divorce. I myself have seen couples "in love" just get married at the first opportunity.
But fact is, the leading cause of divorce in this country is financial difficulties. My friend Steve is not waiting because there aren't any good suitors, but because he wants to find a good stable job and pay off all his debts from college and things. With marriage inevitably comes kids. Kids are often brought in the picture whether mom and dad are ready for them or not (remember that the only perfect method of birthcontrol is abstinence
) With kids comes the bigger house and family sized sedan. $$$$$. Today more than ever it requires both mom and dad to work in order to pay the bills. On and on and on.
So there's more to think about before getting married than "I love this person." It's typically a LOT harder to be in college and be married. A friend of mine got married a month or so ago and when her fiancee asked her dad if he could propose, dad clearly warned him..."If you marry my daughter, she becomes you're problem." Translated that means daddy no longer pays for college or pays her bills. It becomes the husband's responsibility.
My friend Steve has a good head on his shoulders and I think he's doing it the responsible way. I personally don't think I want to wait to thirty. I'll probably marry the first girl who's crazy enough to stand me. At 25 some of you may be responsible enough financially and mature enough to be married or have good paying jobs that you know you won't lose in a few years.
But honestly, people fall in love and get married. They don't really care if they're ready or not or capable or financially well. I think hormones keep people who are in love from thinking straight lol! Ok, that was a joke. Only you can know when it happens