I think the disconnect is what is flowing from Christ.
You seem to think from what I can tell, that Christ is not enabling us to keep His commandments, but what we feel is right or wrong.
		
		
	 
“I think many sincere believers desire to keep the Ten Commandments out of love for God, and that’s commendable. Yet sometimes, it’s easy to rely on our own sense of what ‘keeping them’ looks like, rather than seeing how the gospel reshapes our understanding of the law. Scripture reminds us that nothing less than perfect obedience would meet the law’s standard (James 2:10), which is why we all need Christ’s righteousness, not our own (Romans 3:20-22).
I don’t say this to criticize, but to point out that we can each develop our own version of Sabbath-keeping that feels right to us, even when it may not align perfectly with what Scripture teaches about finding our rest and fulfillment in Christ (Colossians 2:16-17; Matthew 11:28). My hope is simply that we all keep looking to Jesus—the only One who ever truly kept the law perfectly—and allow His Spirit to fulfill it in us.”
	
		
	
	
		
		
			When you say observe a particular practice, I am assuming you mean the Sabbath since that's what this thread is about, so from what I can tell you are teaching that if we are in Christ we no longer have to keep the commandments of God the way God said including this particular practice, but that's not what Jesus ever said, He taught plainly the opposite. John14:15 John15:10 Mat`5:3-14 Mark 7:7-13 Mat5:19-30 Mat 19:17-19 Mat 12:12 Mark2:27 Mat4:4
		
		
	 
“I appreciate your sincerity in wanting to honor God’s Sabbath, but I don’t believe the way you observe it fully reflects how God has revealed it in His Word. Also, it’s important to remember that in the passages you’ve mentioned, the law had not yet been fulfilled—Christ’s work was still in progress. The fulfillment came when He declared on the cross, 
‘It is finished’ (John 19:30). That moment marked the completion of what the law pointed toward and what only He could accomplish. I share this not to argue, but to remind us both that our rest and righteousness are found in His finished work, not in our ability to keep the law perfectly.”
	
		
	
	
		
		
			If we are in Christ abiding in Him this is what is flowing out of us. Love to God that we want to obey Him and abide in His love because we love Him.
John 15:10 If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love.
So if we are loving Christ and abiding in Him, one is also keeping His commandments so there would be no disconnect with Christ our Savior  His Laws He asks us to keep if we love Him.
		
		
	 
“I appreciate what you’re saying about love leading to obedience — that’s a beautiful truth. I would just add, that when Jesus spoke of 
‘My commandments’ in John 15:10, He wasn’t referring specifically to the Ten Commandments given through Moses, but to His own teachings — the words He gave His disciples while He was with them (John 14:21, 23-24).
His commandments center on faith in Him and love toward others (John 13:34; 1 John 3:23). Today, that same obedience continues as we walk in the Spirit, listening to His leading and allowing His life to be expressed through us (Romans 8:4; Galatians 5:16-18). The Christian life isn’t about going back under the letter of the law, but about living out the Spirit of Christ’s teachings day by day.”
	
		
	
	
		
		
			If you knew someone that was committing adultery, would you encourage them to continue in that path even though we are told sin separates us from Christ Isa 59:2 unless we have a change in heart and a change in direction, means putting away that sin.   The thing is I do not think God separated the 4th commandment from the other 9 commandments, Deyt 4:13 Exo 34:28 James2:11  man did this, not God.  So encouraging someone that they do not have to keep a particular practice that is contrary to the law of God is no different than someone committing adultery or breaking any of God's commandments.
		
		
	 
“I completely agree that sin separates us from God and that repentance means turning away from what is wrong and walking in newness of life (Isaiah 59:2; Romans 6:1-4). But I think we need to be careful not to equate every difference in understanding of the law with open rebellion against God.
The moral principles behind the Ten Commandments are eternal — love for God and love for others — but the covenantal form of the law, including the Sabbath as given to Israel, pointed forward to something greater. Scripture says that Christ fulfilled the law (Matthew 5:17) and that in Him, believers enter God’s true rest (Hebrews 4:9-10). The New Testament never presents Sabbath observance as a test of loyalty to God, but rather invites us to rest in Christ’s finished work (Colossians 2:16-17). This is the fullfillment of the 4th commanment by Christ.
So encouraging someone to rest in Christ rather than to follow a particular day of observance isn’t like condoning adultery or lawlessness — it’s pointing them toward the One who fulfilled the law perfectly and empowers us to live righteously through the Spirit (Romans 8:3-4; Galatians 5:18).”
	
		
	
	
		
		
			Jesus fulfilling the law to mean we do not have to keep God's commandments as clearly Jesus stated  the opposite Mat5:19 is not something that can be reconciled in our Bibles.  Jesus fulfilled the law in what He was prophesized to do, make the law greater not lessor.  Isa42:21  He fulfilled it showing how we keep God's laws, like fulfilling a wedding covenant. He never fulfilled is so we can profane them.  Its kept for God's faithful until the end Rev22:14
		
		
	 
“I think there’s been some misunderstanding, and I want to be clear that no one here is advocating disobedience to God’s law. Scripture teaches that God’s moral standards still reflect His character, and those who love Him will naturally desire to obey (John 14:15).
The difference is in 
how that obedience is lived out. Jesus didn’t fulfill the law so that we could break it, but so that its righteous requirement could be fulfilled 
in us through the Spirit (Romans 8:3–4). The law was powerless to make us righteous, but Christ accomplished what it could not.
When we say the law was fulfilled, we’re not saying it was abolished or made meaningless — we’re saying that Christ completed its purpose, revealing its true intent in love and faith (Galatians 5:14). The heart of obedience now flows from being united with Him, not from striving to earn righteousness on our own.
So we’re not rejecting God’s commands — we’re embracing them in the way Christ Himself enables: through His Spirit, by faith, from the heart.”
	
		
	
	
		
		
			I am not sure if I am interested in pursuing this conversation further because I think we both have made up on minds on this topic and at this point, we will just need to wait until Jesus comes back to sort it all out.  He will soon enough. Rev22:11
		
		
	 
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