I never said your church or you said you did. I know Lutherans are much more compassionate than that. How does your church’s belief in infant baptism reconciles children that die prior to baptism? I’m honestly curious.
I guess children being sentenced to hell has something to do with it.
You seem to be under the misapprehension that believing in infant baptism equates to a desire for young children to be condemned and a rejection of the infinite love and mercy of Christ our True God.
It is not that at all.
Rather, we believe everyone, including young children, can benefit from the means of grace - in Orthodoxy we take this to the point of giving Chrismation (Confirmation) and Holy Communion to infants following baptism and at all aubsequent liturgies.
God spares infants, but the devil doesn’t, but baptism ensures the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, the protection of a guardian angel, and the exorcism of any demon trying to take up residence, and thus our children are made ready having been baptized, and having received the Seal of the Holy Spirit in Chrismation, to partake of the very Body and Blood of our Lord, God and Savior Jesus Christ, shed for us and for many for the remission of sins, which unites the children into the covenantal relationship of the Gospel based on infinite grace and forgiveness and grafts them onto the Body of Christ (see 1 Corinthians) thus allowing them to draw near Christ in His holiness.
It is not about sparing children from Hell so much as it is uniting them with God’s infinite grace all the heavenly and angelic powers. I am extremely thankful I was baptized in my youth, for God protected me, developed me, and made his grace available to me from an extremely young age.
I would also stress that Lutherans such as my friends
@ViaCrucis and
@Ain't Zwinglian are entirely free from any attachment to a theology of damnation for infants, but rather, as
@Ain't Zwinglian points out, we also have to avoid Universalism or semi-Universalism; those infants who die before Baptism but who are to have been baptized should surely be regarded as being in the same category as those catechumens who die before baptism (and the early church had a very long catechumenate, years, in some cases, and in the modern Orthodox church it can take six months or more). Yet any who die as catechumens receive a funeral.
The real danger with not baptizing an adult in a timely manner is that this constitutes sloth; the danger in not baptizing a child in a timely manner is that while we can trust Christ’s mercy regarding their status, we are failing his directive to suffer the children to come to Him, since Scripturally the manner in which we come to Christ is through Baptism, the Eucharist and in Orthodoxy, other mysteries of the church, some of which the Lutherans might regard as sacramentals if not as sacraments per se, for example some Lutherans might practice the anointing of the sick and those fasting with oil, although obviously not using the Roman liturgy that Martin Luther found objectionable. These practices are also common among Anglicans, some of whom do enumerate seven sacraments.
As a result of our not doing with children what Christ wants us to do, namely baptizing them, we are depriving them of the intimate relationship that would exist even before baptism, and furthermore we are precluding them from partaking of the Eucharist, since at a minimum the Eucharist according to Orthodox belief requires noetic faith (I think, if I have understood my Lutheran friends correctly, that our theology of how the Eucharist operates on infants is somewhat akin to the Lutheran theology of how baptism operates on them, but suffice it to say, it is not believed that any danger exists of them not discerning the Body and Blood.
We believe in baptizing and communicating everyone, including infants and those with intellectual disabilities, so that everyone can benefit from the fullness of the Body of Christ even for the present, much more the glories of the life of the world to come.
Also one final note: we should consider one other aspect: while God most of us feel does not punish infants for not being baptized, there is a possibility he might well hold us accountable, particularly if we ought to have known better, for example, if we were brought up in an Orthodox Church but left perhaps because we were seduced by the praise and worship music of an aliturgical church that practiced credobaptism. After all, it is not the infants who are disobeying Christ’s instruction to suffer the children to come to him (which implicitly requires Baptism, which is the means of being born again in Christ and being united to Him), but those who would deny them access to the Font.