Do you not see your contradiction? Either man is saved by God's Grace alone or he's not. Your analogy of throwing a life preserver to someone suggests they are not dead in sin and trespasses, but have some signs of life left in them to reach out and save themselves, correct? This is Semi-Pelagianism, because you insist man can reach for it by having a will. Only by being regenerated by the Holy Spirit and made alive in Christ can a sinner be redeemed in Christ through Faith Alone apart from works of the Law.
No, God's
purpose, since Eden until today, is not to violate your will but to
draw it into the obedience that Adam failed at. In this world we have the history, the experience, the revelation, and the grace do so. God beckons us to the cross.
Fallen man is also characterized as sick or wounded: in need of being healed, lost: in need of being found, asleep: in need of being awakened, dead: in need of being raised or reborn. All metaphor, obviously.
Man was created good as everything in creation is, but his unrighteousness, his injustice, his death, is directly related to the distance or alienation from God that Adam initiated for all humanity, that he
chose. In all of creation, only sentient, rational beings with free will can do this, can be and act outside of Gods will and control. Until we are reconciled with Him, until we know Him, until we give up our own pride that separates us from Him, we remain in a state of injustice.
But when man turns to God in faith he enters fellowship with Him and that, itself, constitutes man's justice/righteousness, that which he was made for, and that which he had strayed from. God declared Abraham righteous because his faith
was the right thing to do, born out by his obedience.
Novel theologies have posited that man's righteousness is solely imputed. This is a partial truth. God's not interested in suddenly pretending that we are righteous but in actually restoring justice/righteousness lost, and moving us on to greater righteousness yet. Including forgiveness that’s the basis of our freedom from condemnation.
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Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death. For what the law was powerless to do because it was weakened by the flesh, God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh to be a sin offering. And so he condemned sin in the flesh, in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the flesh but according to the Spirit.”
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Therefore, brothers and sisters, we have an obligation—but it is not to the flesh, to live according to it. For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live. For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God.” Rom 8:1-4, 12-14
Jesus Christ is both our God and our model for how a human can and should be. We just can't do it alone, apart from grace, apart from
Him. We were never meant to. "
Apart from Me you can do nothing."
This is we differ, God's call will not fail, it's effectual. A calling out of the darkness into his marvelous light. His sheep will hear his voice and follow. Christ's redemptive mission was not mission possible, but mission accomplished. Finished as his final words on the Cross, "IT IS FINISHED"! God's Promise to save his people from their sins, is not a wishing and hoping that it might happen. But a fulfillment, an eschatological redemptive consummation in Christ on the Cross!
No, the Bible warns and instructs and admonishes believers to be perfect, be holy, overcome the deeds of the flesh, invest their talents, feed the hungry, cloth the naked, refrain from sin, remain in Him, obey the commandments, be vigilant, persevere, do good, and more, all with eternal life at stake. It instructs us to
love, to sum up the rest. The primary difference between the old and new covenants is that we’re now able to do so, by virtue of union with God. The gospel is not some sort of
reprieve from man’s obligation to be righteous, but is the authentic means to accomplishing that very thing. Faith does not serve the purpose of granting us some sort of carte blanc freedom from the penalty of sin as long as we
believe, but it’s actually the doorway to the God who, alone, can put His law in our minds and write it on our hearts, taking away and freeing us from sin and therefore it’s penalty: death (Rom 6).