These aren't the kind of women you want in your life as marriage material, that's for sure. Very shallow. A woman that's heavily influenced by social media is a deal breaker for me....and is an indicator of a weak mind.
We're influenced by many things. Social media is a convenient vehicle. So is television, magazines, etc. Consider the things you enjoy. Where did they come from? You didn't emerge from the womb enjoying them. You saw something, read something, had an encounter, or someone shared it with you. That's how it happens.
Social media opened the world to everyone. We discover things about one another and life we wouldn't encounter otherwise. It doesn't have to be negative. Exposure can ignite a passion or curiosity about an unknown or topic we've wanted to explore but never a had chance to.
In some respects, we've expanded our conception of life and 'the good life' so to speak. Watching others pursue the things we dream about can inspire us to do the same. Sometimes we have to take the limit off ourselves.
For example, I saw a few things on Pinterest that really resonated. White on white decor for starters. It wasn't on my radar in the past. But the examples were well done and I loved the mood and decided to follow suit. Organization was the other. I wanted an orderly home with everything in its place. That required decluttering, purging and acquiring the cabinets and storage materials to make it happen. But the end result was worth it.
I use it as a tool and resource. I don't have to rebuild the wheel. I can take an idea and run with it for my purposes. But a stranger seeing the same may reach a different conclusion. They may think its overkill, too perfect, too expensive, and so on. They don't understand my reasons nor are they privy to them.
The same holds true for profiles. We don't know the why behind their interests or what appeals. It's usually a lot of things rolled into one. Hopes, dreams, fears, experiences and more. We shouldn't take it personal because its not about us or a rejection of us. They like what they like.
Much like my home. Some would love it, some wouldn't and more than a few would get offended. It sounds bizarre but it happens. They feel inadequate and judged. But you've never spoken or viewed their space. The differences between the two is the problem. They want to see themselves reflected on the screen and when they don't its bothersome.
God didn't make us identical. We can't expect everyone to look the same, feel the same, want the same things, or be attracted to the same things either. It's okay if they aren't because we aren't. And sometimes we forget that.
Most of the women that I dated, that were attracted to me, was basically simple things "He was funny, he was nice/sweet" I remember asking them and that was pretty much her answer, she had no long laundry list of demands like I see in some of these profiles.
If simplicity strikes a chord the rest are irrelevant. It doesn't matter what they want or how its conveyed. It doesn't resonate with you. You're looking for the one who demonstrates what you've described. That's where your focus belongs.
I remember a woman saying in her profile that she was attracted to a guy with dark eye lashes. I had to re-read that because I thought she said eye-brows. I'm like "Eye lashes?" She looking for a guy who wears mascara? lol. Is metro-sexual?
Not necessarily. Dark lashes deepen the color or intensity of the eyes. When they contrast the color pops. When they're close in hue it intensifies.