Then is the God you know that God which Paul the apostle knows?
For it is the apostle who received his gospel from Jesus Christ personally (Galatians 1:11-12) that presents vessels of honor and vessels of wrath, who are so by their own choice.
To avoid confusion regarding them, let me present my over-all view on the matters of Romans 9.
1) Election (choosing) is presented in Romans 9:11-12--the case of Jacob and Esau. . .based on nothing but God's sovereign right to choose whom he pleases to fulfill his purposes.
2) Then I understand God's "call" to be effective--not just a kind invitation, according to the purport of the following:
"No one can come to me unless the Father has enabled him." (John 6:65)
"All that the Father gives me will come to me," (John 6:37)
"I shall lose none of all that he has given me." (John 6:39).
Making "Paulism" and "Calvinism" the doctrine of Christ.
3) Then I understand divine "foreknowledge" in the sense of executing in the present the purpose and choice God (not man) made before the foundations of the world:
"Divine foreknowledge, as used in Scripture, does not refer to God knowing in advance what men are going to do, but refers to God knowing in advance what he is going to do. . .because he has decreed that he shall do it.
Acts 15:18 - "Known to the Lord for ages is his work."
Isaiah 48:3 - "I foretold (predestined) the former things of long ago,
my mouth announced (decreed) them, and I made them known;
then suddenly I acted, (foreknowledge executed), and they came to pass.
See Acts 2:23, 4:28; Isaiah 37:26.
God executed in their present the purpose and choice he made before the foundations of the world; i.e.,
God executed/accomplished (acted according to) his foreknowledge (his previous purpose and choice)," as in Jacob (Romans 9:11-12).
4) which brings me to Romans 8:29, "those God foreknew:"
In light of Matthew 7:23, "I never knew you," (which I see as meaning those not of John 6:37, above; i.e., not given to Jesus), I understand those God
"foreknew" to be those whom God lovingly knew (elected for regeneration and love of him) before the foundations of the world, whom he then
"predestined" (determined beforehand, foreordained) to be conformed to the image of his Son, whom he then
"called" with an effective call which accomplishes (John 6:37, above), whom he then
"justified" with the imputed righteousness of Jesus Christ (Romans 1:17, Romans 3:21-22), and whom he then
"glorified" with the shared glory of Christ's inheritance (Romans 8:27),
and both the vessels of wrath and the vessels of mercy "qualifying" by their preference and free choice of unbelief and non-submission, or belief and submission.
I know the scriptures you provided below, that I have placed for reference, can be used to support your case.
"
No one
can come to me
unless the Father has
enabled him." (
John 6:65)
"
All that the Father
gives me
will come to me," (
John 6:37)
"I shall lose
none of all that he has
given me." (
John 6:39).
But what is the logical outworking of this revealing? Jesus presented the idea that there was a “response” needed before the Father reveals Himself.
Joh 14:21-23 He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves Me. And he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and manifest Myself to him." Judas (not Iscariot) said to Him, "Lord, how is it that You will manifest Yourself to us, and not to the world?" Jesus answered and said to him, "If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home with him. He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine but the Father's who sent Me.
My idea, supported by the Church Fathers, who I continually quote, is that God gives his goodwill to all men, and they either receive the light or push it away of their own choosing.
Iranaeus - Against Heresies - Book 4 Ch 39-End
4. But God, foreknowing all things, prepared fit habitations for both, kindly conferring that light which they desire on those who seek after the light of incorruption, and resort to it; but for the despisers and mockers who avoid and turn themselves away from this light, and who do, as it were, blind themselves, He has prepared darkness suitable to persons who oppose the light, and He has inflicted an appropriate punishment upon those who try to avoid being subject to Him.
Note Jesus mentions two groups, those who “see Jesus” and receive Him, and those who “see Him”, and deny Him.
Joh 6:36-40 But I said to you that you have seen Me and yet do not believe. All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will by no means cast out. For I have come down from heaven, not to do My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me. This is the will of the Father who sent Me, that of all He has given Me I should lose nothing, but should raise it up at the last day. And this is the will of Him who sent Me, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in Him may have everlasting life; and I will raise him up at the last day."
It is true that the Father gives people to Jesus, and enables them to see, but based upon whether they respond genuinely to God’s promise. As we see in Joh 14:21-23 quoted above.
Jesus said he had come into the world to let people see the light, and make blind those that “see”, know, but do not keep the word.
Joh 9:39-41 And Jesus said, "For judgment I have come into this world, that those who do not see may see, and that those who see may be made blind." Then some of the Pharisees who were with Him heard these words, and said to Him, "Are we blind also?" Jesus said to them, "If you were blind, you would have no sin; but now you say, 'We see.' Therefore your sin remains.
Note Jesus also said that if they “did not see” they would have no sin. This fits with the Early Church Fathers. Which state that man could not be accountable for their sin if they did not have a free will choice.
Justin Martyr - First Apology - Ch 50-56
Chap. XLIII — Responsibility Asserted.
….For not like other things, as trees and quadrupeds, which cannot act by choice, did God make man: for neither would he be worthy of reward or praise did he not of himself choose the good, but were created for this end; nor, if he were evil, would he be worthy of punishment, not being evil of himself, but being able to be nothing else than what he was made….
Note even on the last day God needs to blind some. They did not start out blind.
2Th 2:9-12 The coming of the lawless one is according to the working of Satan, with all power, signs, and lying wonders, and with all unrighteous deception among those who perish, because they did not receive the love of the truth, that they might be saved. And for this reason God will send them strong delusion, that they should believe the lie, that they all may be condemned who did not believe the truth but had pleasure in unrighteousness.
And why were they blinded, they did not receive a love of the truth.