I had to spend a few years in the ghetto in Kansas City myself when I became disabled and lost my land etc over the financial collapse that became my life...
The major thing I found in doing that, was such easy access to various social services that don't exist in rural communities... I was amazed it was so helpful.
As to your freinds in New York, how do they manage normal things in life like their banking and check cashing etc. without a state issued ID in some form? I've not been able to manage life without one in the Midwest for decades. Once I went into the bank to withdraw some money out of my account and found my drivers license had expired the day before... and even though she knew me (small town bank everyone knows everyone) as I'd been banking there more than a decade, she wouldn't give me a dime of my own money until I showed state ID that wasn't expired. Well, I was out of cash so I had to drive to a freinds house borrow 20 dollars, go to the DMV, get a new license, run back to bank withdraw my own money, run back to the freinds house to repay them...
I was angry... lol.. but I never let my ID expire again... I just can't imagine how anyone can do anything in life without it. If you need any kind of social services you have to have ID, if you need to do any banking you have to have ID... etc etc etc