Yeah that's fine for State law though, but Jesus tells us that His people (the Church) ought to turn the other cheek, etc.
The question is why God does not do the same. The answer is He did - on the cross. But what kind of victory did that win?
On the cross, Jesus was the victor over Satan, sin, and death, right? (Some say even the victor over the Law.)
I'll tell you what made me consider Universalism. It was when I was lying in bed in fear one night about whether my two kids would be saved, and if they did not accept Jesus, how they would go to hell - either to be annihilated or for eternal torment. I began to realise that this meant that death still has a sting over me as a believer. It's all fair and well that I go to heaven, but those I love might not, and so for all eternity death still has a last word over me, even a believer.
But I realised that the Bible tells me death does not have the last word, and does not even have a sting any more. It tells me that love conquers all. It tells me that Jesus's victory over death was real and complete, not half done. So therefore, the only reasonable explanation for this is to realise that God won't ever let death have the last word, just like He says, and even death is not enough to separate Him from those He loves. And if I love the unsaved, which I do, surely He does too? The only possible explanation for hell under all this is it is part of His salvation plan. And there for, reluctantly, I realised I could not believe the entire Bible unless I actually accepted some sort of Universalist position.
Hope that makes sense. It seems to me under all the other models, death still wins, even over a believer, who must see their loved ones die forever.