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So apparently it's not just social anxiety, but I'm also just antisocial.
It makes feel pretty awful that I'm this way and that other people are so put off by it. I just usually don't have much of an interest in other people.
I have reasons I'm this way and I'm not antisocial 24/7.
1. Forced social interaction makes me angry which is why I don't enjoy talking with coworkers.
2. I spend a lot of time thinking about problems I need to solve and unwanted social interaction interrupts my thoughts.
3. I don't want anything from or find the people who I'm around at that moment interesting enough to interact with and any effort spent talking would be wasted mental energy.
The thing I don't get is I have no issue starting conversations with random people I find interesting so it's not like I'm completely bad at socializing I'm just extremely picky about who I talk to.
I don't think it's fair people treat me like my personality is bad because I have this trait. God himself was quiet. Maybe not for the same reasons as me but it can't be that big of a crime to not be a social butterfly.
It makes feel pretty awful that I'm this way and that other people are so put off by it. I just usually don't have much of an interest in other people.
I have reasons I'm this way and I'm not antisocial 24/7.
1. Forced social interaction makes me angry which is why I don't enjoy talking with coworkers.
2. I spend a lot of time thinking about problems I need to solve and unwanted social interaction interrupts my thoughts.
3. I don't want anything from or find the people who I'm around at that moment interesting enough to interact with and any effort spent talking would be wasted mental energy.
The thing I don't get is I have no issue starting conversations with random people I find interesting so it's not like I'm completely bad at socializing I'm just extremely picky about who I talk to.
I don't think it's fair people treat me like my personality is bad because I have this trait. God himself was quiet. Maybe not for the same reasons as me but it can't be that big of a crime to not be a social butterfly.