I'm curious as to how you could forget your friend's names? I can see how being touched and tickled could be annoying. People need their personal space and touching and tickling is an invasion of that space. You need to respect personal boundaries and use vocal cues instead.
Stop touching them. If you are doing something that annoys people, stop.I'm sick and tired my friends avoiding me all because I try to touch them and tickle them. I was just joking. They avoid me all because I touch them. I was just getting their attention when I forget their names.
How do I get them to stop avoiding me and how do I get them to come back to church?
I would rather show up at their jobs and ask Them how they're doing.
Apologize to them and let it go. If they were truly your friends they will eventually get back to you but always keep your hands to yourself.I just don't know what to say to them and I don't tickle and touch them anymore
I'm sick and tired my friends avoiding me all because I try to touch them and tickle them. I was just joking. They avoid me all because I touch them. I was just getting their attention when I forget their names.
I'm sick and tired my friends avoiding me all because I try to touch them and tickle them. I was just joking. They avoid me all because I touch them. I was just getting their attention when I forget their names.
How do I get them to stop avoiding me and how do I get them to come back to church?
I would rather show up at their jobs and ask Them how they're doing.
OK I willApologize to them and let it go. If they were truly your friends they will eventually get back to you but always keep your hands to yourself.
Why do you want to talk to these particular people so badly?
I don't know maybe I want to know more about them
I don't want this to sound cold, I am just being honest and blunt. What makes you think you have the right to put your hands on them at all? My wife is allowed to touch me, I have had people pat me on the back, shake my hand, hug me when appropriate. But if an adult came up to me and started tickling me I would feel extremely uncomfortable and I would ask them to stop. I am 51 years old, being 'tickled' ended in grade school... maybe some jokes in middle or high school... but the end of that example is "it ended in school."I'm sick and tired my friends avoiding me all because I try to touch them and tickle them. I was just joking. They avoid me all because I touch them. I was just getting their attention when I forget their names.
How do I get them to stop avoiding me and how do I get them to come back to church?
I would rather show up at their jobs and ask Them how they're doing.
I don't want this to sound cold, I am just being honest and blunt. What makes you think you have the right to put your hands on them at all? My wife is allowed to touch me, I have had people pat me on the back, shake my hand, hug me when appropriate. But if an adult came up to me and started tickling me I would feel extremely uncomfortable and I would ask them to stop. I am 51 years old, being 'tickled' ended in grade school... maybe some jokes in middle or high school... but the end of that example is "it ended in school."
Do you want to repair the damage? Fix the friendships? I would call or write and ask them to forgive you for placing your hands on them and let them know that now you know that crossed a boundary line. I would accept that kind of apology, I am sure they would as well.
I would think you'll find that most adults feel this way.OK I understand how you feel about the touching and the tickling
yes. I pray every morning
OK I will