- Mar 11, 2016
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As much as I love my jobs and work is fulfilling...I feel like they're a curse sometimes. My dad decided to spontaneously quit his job and mom hits me up for cash...I do help her with some bills... But its like I can never save.
I'd do anything for my mom...but within reason... Like she asked me to help pay for a car for my brother... I thought that was kinda crazy because one, my brother is nearing 30 and 2) I have my own tuition to pay and 3) he's been working his job for a couple years ...he could have saved to have gotten 2 cars...
I personally feel that's my brothers responsibility...like she would never ask my brother to chip in to pay my tuition.. And he shouldn't have to...I wouldn't allow it..not while I'm working.
Idk sometimes I just wonder like.. How does my mom expect me to move on if I'm being bled dry?
I said no this time....
But I know other times will come though...I just wonder how can I say no without looking like the bad guy...because I love my mom so much...but
I see no point in having a job ...especially 2 if I can't save .
Please...I need advice lol
I'd do anything for my mom...but within reason... Like she asked me to help pay for a car for my brother... I thought that was kinda crazy because one, my brother is nearing 30 and 2) I have my own tuition to pay and 3) he's been working his job for a couple years ...he could have saved to have gotten 2 cars...
I personally feel that's my brothers responsibility...like she would never ask my brother to chip in to pay my tuition.. And he shouldn't have to...I wouldn't allow it..not while I'm working.
Idk sometimes I just wonder like.. How does my mom expect me to move on if I'm being bled dry?
I said no this time....
But I know other times will come though...I just wonder how can I say no without looking like the bad guy...because I love my mom so much...but
I see no point in having a job ...especially 2 if I can't save .
Please...I need advice lol