The RCC hierarchy has already stated that women cannot be ordained, given a theological explanation as to why they cannot be ordained, and furthermore stated that the matter is not to be discussed - that Rome has spoken and the case is closed.
It's not a matter of your interpretation vs. mine. On this issue, the consensus of 2000 years of church history are on my side.
The third possibility, namely that the tension that you perceive between Jesus and Paul doesn't really exist, that Paul was affirming the practice of Jesus, who called exclusively men as apostles, and that Paul's instructions retain their validity today. I'm at a loss to imagine on what basis you think Paul's instructions were reversed.
Solid forensic science dates the shroud to between 1260 and 1390 AD. Or do you view scientific evidence, like scriptural and historical evidence, as something only to be considered when it fits your preconceived dogmas?
Rome has spoken about many things over the ages. Sometimes it has done so brutally and evilly. Sometimes, wisely. Women teach and hold all sorts of leadership positions within the Church. They aren't priests, but priests are not the only (or even the primary) teachers. In any case, Rome has also spoken regarding clerical celibacy. Rome does things the way Rome does things.
And the Catholic and Presbyterian Churches are in decline, emptying out, hollowing out. I'm not going to go out there and fight for things that I do not believe. More importantly, I'm not going to finance them.
In Europe, churches are being bought out and becoming mosques.
For about 1400 of those 2000 years of tradition, the Christian churches had the power to KILL to enforce discipline. They used that power with reckless abandon, and thereby tainted themselves in the same way that Germany is tainted forever by its past, or America by its slavery past. One always must hang an asterisk by the record of any of the old murderous churches of the past (which is all of them that came out of the 1500s), because by doing what they did, they demonstrated that they are capable, as institutions, of marching militantly en masse and proudly in the armies of Satan and doing deeds as black as hell.
That's why arguments from tradition are only so strong. When your tradition allowed you to commit genocide and burn people alive...when you're an American or a German, or a Presbyterian or a Catholic, you cannot thump that drum of traditional authority TOO loudly, because your ancestors squandered it by behaving exactly like ISIS Muslims today.
Other Churches are growing and waxing.
Tradition is an argument that has to be made gently. When it is made authoritatively, like the old clenched fist of the Catholic and Presbyterian past, people turn and walk out the door, and they are right to do so. Our churches do not have very great moral authority, precisely because they were so very evil and murderous, for so very long. Catholicism and Presbyterianism have the obligation to make their arguments and appeals humbly, because when they did so arrogantly they became murderers and were deprived, by everybody else all around them, of the power and authority to ever be in the position to do that again.
Between the First Century and the Twenty First is the Sixteenth and Seventeenth - in which Christianity very nearly committed suicide on exaggerated claims of authority. The Churches didn't die them, but they murdered enough people horribly that they lost any ultimate claim of infallibility or truth - they have already demonstrated that they are not completely trustworthy in carrying out their method and mission.
That is why yes, in the end, my own authority to judge supersedes the opinion of the Pope and the Church. The Pope and the Church, after all, used to consign people to the flames. and THAT Catholic Church had to be violently destroyed on the battlefield rather than allowed to live. Fortunately, it changed. The point is that it CAN fail, so yes, you are ultimately the final and absolutely judge of all things in the court of your mind, including your God.
We have all judged all the gods - of the Greeks, of the Norse, of the Muslims and Jews and Hindus, and of the Christians. We have decided that the Christian God is acceptable to us, so we follow him. The other Gods we have diminished to "gods" and reject them. And it is well. But people following our God murdered people too, so we have no grounds to be too terribly comfortable in the traditions of our religion, and we can never cede the ultimate authority to judge everything that we will allow to hold court in our minds - including the gods and God - before we let them, or even Him, in there.
For a god to be God we have to open the door and let him in. So yes, we are the ultimate judge of truth, when it comes to ourselves. It can be no other way. Tradition can be a helper, but in the end it all comes down to you yourself alone, and me, and each other, in the temple of his own mind.
Nobody can MAKE you believe anything.
The tension that I perceive between Paul and Jesus, and between the Apostles and Jesus, and between the Apostles and each other, and between Jesus and the theologies of the various Churches, does really exist. It is not a fiction, it is not imagined, and it is the case before my court, where I am the judge. So sneering at the fact that I am the final authority over my own religion, as you are over yours, accomplishes nothing...other than ensure that the same sort of approach to people that has caused the Presbyterian and Catholic Churches to die out before our eyes continues. Nobody is going to by the "Who are YOU" approach from some arrogant Christian anymore. Nobody is going to cede that authority. The arrogance is obvious. It's the REASON Catholicism shattered in the first place, it's the REASON that all of those people were murdered by the Christian churches, which in turn is why the Christian Church has such comparatively little credibility relative to what it once had. Actions have consequences.
When you say "solid forensic evidence", have you even studied it? What is your degree, a B.A., or a B.S. or a higher scientific degree? Do you even know what you are looking at when you look at the "solid forensic evidence", or are you taking it on the authority of somebody you read? I have the education and training to be able to parse that material correctly, and I have examined it quite deeply. You do not know what you are talking about and are just taking somebody else's word for it. (I will acknowledge that I, too, am taking other people's word for it - I am trusting that the forensic reports and thermochemical analyses I have read have been done honestly and reported honestly. We know from global warming science that scientists themselves are often dishonest when their careers are at stake.)
In any case.
Not much point in our continuing this discussion. You are incapable of persuading me of anything, because I reject your assertions of authority, and you obviously reject my reasoning.
So let's say goodbye and walk away now. No good can be served by continuing to communicate.