It isn't Gods will for you to demand of others what you do not demand if yourself
When I say we believers are to obey all of the commands in the New Testament, I am sayin that is the goal for every believer to eventually achieve within this life time. Like being "perfect" as Jesus commands us to be, it is a goal and is usually not an overnight thing. It takes time to fully read, understand and then obey all of God's commands in the New Testament. Not all of His commands in the New Testament relate to our salvation. But I can point out to you many verses that talk about certain sins (i.e. the breaking of certain God's commands) that do relate to our salvation. Please see: Matthew 5:22, Matthew 5:28-30, Matthew 6:15, Matthew 25:14-30, Matthew 25:31-46, Luke 9:26, Acts of the Apostles 5:1-11, Acts of the Apostles 8:22, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Galatians 5:19-21, Ephesians 5:3-6, Colossians 3:5-8, 1 Timothy 5:11-16, 1 Timothy 6:9-12, 1 John 3:15, Revelation 21:8.
For it is written...
5 "But after thy hardness and impenitent heart treasurest up unto thyself wrath against the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God;
6 Who will render to every man according to his deeds:
7 To them who by patient continuance in well doing seek for glory and honour and immortality, eternal life:
8 But unto them that are contentious, and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, indignation and wrath,
9 Tribulation and anguish, upon every soul of man that doeth evil, of the Jew first, and also of the Gentile;
10 But glory, honour, and peace, to every man that worketh good, to the Jew first, and also to the Gentile:
11 For there is no respect of persons with God.
12 For as many as have sinned without law shall also perish without law: and as many as have sinned in the law shall be judged by the law;
13 (For not the hearers of the law
are just before God, but the doers of the law shall be justified.
14 For when the Gentiles, which have not the law, do by nature the things contained in the law, these, having not the law, are a law unto themselves:
15 Which shew the work of the law written in their hearts, their conscience also bearing witness, and
their thoughts the mean while accusing or else excusing one another; )
16 In the day when God shall judge the secrets of men by Jesus Christ according to my gospel."
(Romans 2:5-16).
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