Let me see if I can help. You've been given the words and definitions. Let me try a poor stab at an illustration.
On a cold winter day you blow air/breathe on your hands to warm them. In contrast, same day, same environment, when given a hot beverage you do the same thing to cool it. Is the breath the same or different? is the result the same or different? The breath is ontologically the same but the operation, the energy or the working is different. Why, its the same air but it works differently depending on the situation.
This dumb Christian is slowing getting it. Sorry, but I like to think about my Faith. Because I am not afraid to challenge what I believe, and why I believe it. I do not like being rude or nasty when debating with people, because we are discussing God's word. Its just frustrating when people caricature what Calvinism teaches without doing proper research. Like I am doing with the EOC religion. I am doing my home work. My intent is not to distort it, but to understand it. I will be the first to admit that I am the dumbest believer in all Christendom. But I am armed with Scripture (sola scriptura). And I will challenge what anyone say to me; like the bereans who check the Scriptures even when Paul spoke.
So I ask you, if God commands that we preach His Gospel of Grace to every living creature.
For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, for it is the power of God to salvation for everyone who believes, for the Jew first and also for the Greek. For in it the righteousness of God is revealed from faith to faith; as it is written, The just shall live by faith . (Romans 1:16-17).
There is only one way to the Father, and that's in Christ. From Genesis through to Revelation the central message is of a Messiah; a Promised Seed; a Redeemer; a Mediator; Reconciliation; Our Justification; Our Sanctification; Our Redemption!
All I am trying to share with you guys. Is that since we both believe that we cannot DO anything. So in essence is a Divine Act of God that saved the ungodly. Sorry for being long winded, but the good news for us is only found in the Gospel of Grace!
An encounter with the Almighty God to a child of God can be warm and inviting. To a sinner, the same encounter would be a consuming fire. God didn't change.
Please allow me to share something glorious with you. The reason God saves sinners, is because He LOVES them.
Romans 5:8 8But God demonstrates his own love for us in this:
While we were still
sinners, Christ died for us. So I ask you how can God be the Just and the Justifier?
My grandfather was a five-point Calvinist pastor and head of a Baptist Association for years. My parents raised me in the more Arminian belief of the Independent Baptist Church. Most of my adult life was spent in Southern Baptist Churches with a somewhat blended base. I did spend two years in the same Sunday School class as Al Mohler. I understand your confusion, especially since you said you are convinced in Calvinism. Once a mind is made up, everything must fit into that construct. I understand. Calvinism NEVER made sense to me without closing one eye and squinting real hard with the other. "whosoever will" was enough to throw doubt on it in my POV.
When I was a Jehovah Witness, 7th Day, Mormon, Pentecostal, Catholic, Arminian, pretty much everything under the sun. Until I was challenge by a Calvinist friend on what I believe and why I believe it. Since then I learned about the Doctrines of Grace, and finally heard the Gospel of Grace.
Now the EOC states that it believes that we cannot DO anything good without God. We both agree on this point. But way we part ways, is, what are we before God acts? But I have been waiting for an answer to this question from the EOC position. How did we Fall? Is another crucial topic to discuss in detail. Without God, "whosoever will" is nobody. Because they are in bondage to sin, death, and Satan! Now believers "WILL" follow God because God has ALREADY saved them through His Son. So they willingly obey Him. I know you will probably take this the wrong way. But by saying "whosoever wills", I know for a fact that you do not understand Classical Reformed Calvinism. Because by saying that you are missing what the point is being made by that term. Salvation is of the Lord (Jonah 2:9).
And please believe me on this. When I first heard about Calvinism. I set out to destroy it. I spent countless days and long nights reading, and studying to disprove it. But as I did my homework, I found the Doctrines of Grace without Scripture. Which was and is music to my ears! Praise be to God who Justifies the ungodly.
As others have done, I too would invite you to our forum where it can be discussed more fully with more participation. The link is in the previous post.
I will check it out, if people are friendly and courtesy.