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How can the grace of God be resisted by some yet received by others?

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The spiritually dead is what Ephesians 2:1 is talking about and it takes God making them alive (2:4-5) before they can hear.

It looks good on paper because it's found in God's word. God's word is reality.
A man cannot hear until God makes him alive. After being made alive the man will respond to follow his Redeemer.
Even your own words reveal that truth, yet you still desperately try to wrestle control away from God and take the reins for yourself. Why are you so afraid of letting God be Sovereign over your life?

He is sovereign Menno, and He desires you to come unto Him. You are the one stymieing His sovereignty.

Menno, you've been presented with the Spirit's call to come. Don't let your stubbornness be your downfall. You still have time!
 
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We do see that dead people hear and respond to God.

Mark 3
13 And He went up on the mountain and called to Him those He Himself wanted. And they came to Him.
14 Then He appointed twelve, that they might be with Him and that He might send them out to preach,
15 and to have power to heal sicknesses and to cast out demons:


Judas was called by Jesus, whom Jesus Himself wanted, Judas responded and came to Jesus, and then Judas was appointed by Jesus.

We see Judas was not only called, but CAME to Jesus. God is calling and drawing you now, but you can't respond to Jesus' word to come to Him. Why? Is that beyond your desire? Can you not give up your desires and obey the Master?

But, you still have time, Menno. Choose wisely!

Read Romans 9. God can make a vessel for destruction. Judas is an example of that very thing.

It baffles me as to why you want a weak god who is passively acquiescing his authority to you.

Since you desire the choice, at what point will you then choose some other god off the grocery shelf and toss away your used up god? Do you see how you have elevated your importance and attempt to cast down God off his throne? Do you not realize that this is the same thing Satan attempted to his utter defeat? Why would you want to be like Satan?
 
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He is sovereign Menno, and He desires you to come unto Him. You are the one stymieing His sovereignty.

Menno, you've been presented with the Spirit's call to come. Don't let your stubbornness be your downfall. You still have time!

God is Sovereign. He has chosen, like a Sovereign King always does.
You struggle with understanding what Sovereignty is, don't you, Ew.
 
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God is Sovereign. He has chosen, like a Sovereign King always does.
You struggle with understanding what Sovereignty is, don't you, Ew.

You still refuse to listen and heed Jesus' words to come. You still have time!
 
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Read Romans 9. God can make a vessel for destruction. Judas is an example of that very thing.

It baffles me as to why you want a weak god who is passively acquiescing his authority to you.

Since you desire the choice, at what point will you then choose some other god off the grocery shelf and toss away your used up god? Do you see how you have elevated your importance and attempt to cast down God off his throne? Do you not realize that this is the same thing Satan attempted to his utter defeat? Why would you want to be like Satan?

All the excuses in the world does not change the fact you refuse to obey Jesus' words to come.
 
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God is Sovereign. He has chosen, like a Sovereign King always does.
You struggle with understanding what Sovereignty is, don't you, Ew.

Menno, I read and understood His words to come to Him a long time ago. I'm not the one having a problem with His words. You can talk about everything under the sun. But the fact remains, you indicate an unwillingness to heed His words and come to Him. You still have time!
 
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You still refuse to listen and heed Jesus' words to come. You still have time!

Besides speaking a lie, what else do you have?

I am grateful that God graciously chose to save me and make me whole by His will. There is nothing I can brag about. It's always and only been God's work in redeeming me.

Can you say the same?
 
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All the excuses in the world does not change the fact you refuse to obey Jesus' words to come.
Your words are not Jesus words.

God has chosen to call me. I am grateful because there is nothing in my natural being that is worthy of His gracious choice.

Can you say the same?
 
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Menno, I read and understood His words to come to Him a long time ago. I'm not the one having a problem with His words. You can talk about everything under the sun. But the fact remains, you indicate an unwillingness to heed His words and come to Him. You still have time!
Again, you lie and you judge me as though God has not chosen me. What authority do you claim that gives you the right to condemn a person whom God has chosen to redeem?

It's time for you to get behind me...
 
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God has chosen to call me.
Amein. As YHWH chose the disciples, and Y'SHUA told them "Follow ME" and they followed.
I expect with no hesitation(or totally only positive expectation)
when YHWH called you, you followed, right ?
 
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Amein. As YHWH chose the disciples, and Y'SHUA told them "Follow ME" and they followed.
I expect with no hesitation(or totally only positive expectation)
when YHWH called you, you followed, right ?
How can I not love my redeemer who chose to raise me from my spiritual death and make me alive in Christ?

I follow my King, being in awe of his gracious love on my behalf.
 
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Again, you lie and you judge me as though God has not chosen me. What authority do you claim that gives you the right to condemn a person whom God has chosen to redeem?

It's time for you to get behind me...

You still have time!
 
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John 6:45
It is written in the prophets, ‘and they shall all be taught by God.’ Therefore everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to Me.

This not hidden from man; it is no mystery. The man who has heard and learned from the Father, COMES TO ME! This includes everyone (all). Unfortunately, some hear, but do not learn. They refuse to heed the Savior's words, COME TO ME. Some will even fight vigorously not to heed these living words of Jesus. Some will call you Satan for even mentioning this.

However, Jesus' words aren't a part of some sect's doctrine. They should be a primary teaching of all who claim to be Christian. Without 'coming' to Jesus, man does not 'come' to Life Itself. There is only Life in Jesus and His words. Amen.
 
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John 6:45
It is written in the prophets, ‘and they shall all be taught by God.’ Therefore everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to Me.

This not hidden from man; it is no mystery. The man who has heard and learned from the Father, COMES TO ME! This includes everyone (all). Unfortunately, some hear, but do not learn. They refuse to heed the Savior's words, COME TO ME. Some will even fight vigorously not to heed these living words of Jesus. Some will call you Satan for even mentioning this.

However, Jesus' words aren't a part of some sect's doctrine. They should be a primary teaching of all who claim to be Christian. Without 'coming' to Jesus, man does not 'come' to Life Itself. There is only Life in Jesus and His words. Amen.
Amen brother!

Did Jesus not also say no one comes to Me unless The Father draw him?

Therefore a man cannot come unless drawn, man will not come by human strength.
 
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Amen brother!

Did Jesus not also say no one comes to Me unless The Father draw him?

Therefore a man cannot come unless drawn, man will not come by human strength.

However, Jesus tells us how God draws man. God teaches man, and the man who hears and learns from God's teaching comes to Jesus. This is not rocket science. Some men do not want to learn from God's teaching, and will not come to Jesus.

I looked to see what Strong's told us about 'learned'. This is what it said -

to learn, be apprised
  1. to increase one's knowledge, to be increased in knowledge

  2. to hear, be informed

  3. to learn by use and practice
    1. to be in the habit of, accustomed to
Very enlightening information here. Those who are taught by God must put what they learn into use and practice. It is to become a habit, of which they are accustomed.

Now let's look at these verses from John 6 -

35 And Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst.
36 But I said to you that you have seen Me and yet do not believe.
37 All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will by no means cast out.


Here again, Jesus stresses the need to 'come' to Him. Only those who 'come' to Him will never hunger. Many on this forum believe if they 'came' to Jesus, they would be 'doing something' for their salvation. They struggle with these words of Jesus. Yet, Jesus said, 'I AM THE BREAD OF LIFE and he who COMES to Me will never hunger'. No one can partake of the Bread of Life unless they first 'come' to Jesus. Jesus also said, 'you have seen Me and yet do not believe'.

So we see not all people will believe Jesus, even after being taught by Him. The people in John questioned Jesus' teaching as many do today. However, all that the Father gives Jesus will 'come' to Him. The Father gives those who have been taught, heard, and learned (practice and use what they have been taught). We can clearly see who the Father has given Jesus by their willingness and obedience to the teachings of God, and by COMING to Him.

So, if anyone who doesn't 'come' to Him, they are not given to Jesus by the Father. On the other hand, those who are taught, hear, and put into practice what they have been taught, are the ones He will never cast out. Now this is TOTAL ETERNITY SECURITY for those who heed His words, 'come' to Him, and put what they have been taught into practice.
 
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Read Romans 9. God can make a vessel for destruction. Judas is an example of that very thing.

It baffles me as to why you want a weak god who is passively acquiescing his authority to you.

Since you desire the choice, at what point will you then choose some other god off the grocery shelf and toss away your used up god? Do you see how you have elevated your importance and attempt to cast down God off his throne? Do you not realize that this is the same thing Satan attempted to his utter defeat? Why would you want to be like Satan?

Romans 9

Paul uses two teaching methods that are taught in secular philosophy classes and are used even in secular classes as the best example of these methods. Paul does an excellent job of building one premise on the previous premises to develop his final conclusions. Paul uses an ancient form of rhetoric known as diatribe (imaginary debate) asking questions and most of the time giving a strong “By no means” and then goes on to explain “why not”. Paul’s method follows closely to the diatribes used in the individual laments in the Psalms, which the Jewish Christians would have known extensively. These “questions or comments” are given by an “imaginary” student making it more a dialog with the readers (students) and not just a “sermon”.

The main topic repeated extensively in Romans is the division in the Christian house churches in Rome between the Jews and Gentile Christians. You can just look up how many times Jews and gentiles are referred to see this as a huge issue.

The main question in Romans 9 Paul addresses is God being fair or just Rms. 9: 14 What then shall we say? Is God unjust? Not at all!

This will take some explaining, since just prior in Romans 9, Paul went over some history of God’s dealings with the Israelites that sounds very “unjust” like “loving Jacob and hating Esau” before they were born, but remember in all of Paul’s diatribes he begins before, just after or before and just after with strong support for the wrong answer (this makes it more of a debate).

Who in Rome would be having a “problem” with God choosing to work with Isaac and Jacob instead of Ishmael and Esau?

Would the Jewish Christian have a problem with this or would it be the Gentile Christians?

If God treaded you as privileged and special would you have a problem or would you have a problem if you were treated seemingly as common and others were treated with honor for no apparent reason?

That is what is at issue and Paul will explain over the rest of Romans 9-11.

Paul is specific with the issue Rms. 9: 19 One of you will say to me: “Then why does God still blame us? For who is able to resist his will?”

Who is the “one of you” is this Jewish Christian (elect) or Gentile Christian (elect) or is this “non-elect” individual, but is this “letter” being written to non-Christians?

Can Jews say they cannot be blamed for failing in their honored position or would it be the Gentiles that would say they cannot be blamed since they were not in the honored position?

Is it really significant when it comes to what really counts, if you are born a gentile or Jew in the first century in Rome?

Are there issues and problems with being a first century Jew and was this a problem for Paul?

The Jews were created in a special honorable position that would bring forth the Messiah and everyone else was common in comparison.

How do we know Paul is specifically addressing the Jew/Gentile issue? Rms. 9: 30 What then shall we say? That the Gentiles, who did not pursue righteousness, have obtained it, a righteousness that is by faith; 31 but the people of Israel, who pursued the law as the way of righteousness, have not attained their goal. 32 Why not? Because they pursued it not by faith but as if it were by works. They stumbled over the stumbling stone.

Paul is showing from the position of being made “common” vessels by God the Gentiles had an advantage over the born Israelites (vessels of honor) that had the Law, since the Law became a stumbling stone to them. They both needed faith to rely on God’s Love to forgive them.

Without going into the details of Romans 9-11 we conclude with this diatribe question: Romans 11: 11 Again I ask: Did they stumble so as to fall beyond recovery? Not at all! Rather, because of their transgression, salvation has come to the Gentiles to make Israel envious. 12 But if their transgression means riches for the world, and their loss means riches for the Gentiles, how much greater riches will their full inclusion bring!

The common vessels (gentiles) and the vessels of honor (Jews) are equal individually in what is really significant when it comes to salvation, so God is not being unjust or unfair with either group.

If there is still a question about who is being addressed in this section of Rms. 9-11, Paul tells us: Rms. 11: 13 I am talking to you Gentiles. Inasmuch as I am the apostle to the Gentiles, I take pride in my ministry 14 in the hope that I may somehow arouse my own people to envy and save some of them.





Rm 9: 22 What if God, although choosing to show his wrath and make his power known, bore with great patience the objects of his wrath—prepared for destruction?

This verse is not saying all the “vessels” created for a “common purpose” were created for destruction (they were not made from the start “clay pigeons”). Everything that leaves the potter’s shop is a great quality. Those vessels for destruction can come from either the common group or the honor group, but God is being patient with them that will eventually be destroyed. The vessels God does develop great wrath against, will be readied for destruction, but how did they become worthy of destruction since the left the potter’s shop with his mark on them? Any vessel (honorable or common) that becomes damaged is not worthy of the potters signature and He would want it destroyed.

To understand this is Common vessels and special vessels look at the same idea using the same words of Paul in 2 Tim 2: 20. There Paul also points out the common can become the honored vessel.
 
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Continuation of post #1235

Why do some 'come' to Jesus while others do not? Jesus answers this also.

John 3
19 And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.
21 But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.”


Everyone who practices evil hates the Light, who is Jesus -

John 1:9
That was the true Light which gives light to every man coming into the world.

Those who practice evil DO NOT come to the Light. The Light exposes their evil deeds. They will do anything to keep from coming to the Light, even use other scriptures saying they do not need, or not able, to come to the Light. They are very bold and aggressive about not coming to the Light.

However, those who have been taught by God, who hear His words and practice them, come to the Light that their deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God. As Jesus tells us many times, those who have ears to hear, let him hear.
 
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No dead person can hear.

No dead person can see the Light.

God must make you alive. God must make you hear. God must make you see.

No matter how much people desire to be in control of their salvation, the fact is that God is in control and you are not.

Excuses do not nullify the words of Jesus, Menno.
 
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No dead person can hear.

No dead person can see the Light.

God must make you alive. God must make you hear. God must make you see.

No matter how much people desire to be in control of their salvation, the fact is that God is in control and you are not.

If you don't 'come' to Jesus, there is no salvation.
 
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