We've had all kinds here, and years ago One Law'ers were hardly represented. Most of the posters here have historically been mainstream MJ with a charismatic or evangelical underlying theology. The whole "Observant" thing (whatever that means in real terms) is pretty recent.
The issue is completely a waste of time. No one really wants to address the brass tacks here- what does it mean to be Torah observant? If someone says "well, you don't need tzitzis" another will accuse him or her of being "against Torah". This is fanatic madness and it needs to stop. We're being asked to turn on each other like the Muslims do over the laws of the religion. I'm against tearing communities apart for religion.
In Torah, there is a learning curve and observance is very much a matter of personal development and choice. I hate to say it but many of the Gentile posters here just don't seem to understand that, nor do many want it. They tend to bring the denominational mentality of the Western church into MJism- that is, they want written rules and complete conformity and they want it immediately for all. "Our way or the Highway". Posters from Jewish backgrounds tend to see this as folly, trust me. We all talk to each other and we all are pretty mystified at the spectacle that goes on when this topic rears it head. Whether we're MJ or RJ we tend to see this whole kvetch as ridiculous. We tend to see the value of the Torah but also know the being frum is not easy. What's more, is that we tend to bring the tolerance of our way of life into our MJism, so all this fighting and condemnation just seems so...unJewish/unChristian.
Fact: pretty much everyone regular posting here believes in the Torah, its relevance, and its immutable authority. The conversation should therefore always only focus on continuing dialogue on how the Torah is lived in this life. Rather than kick each other- how about supporting each other?
Thank you for addressing the core of the issue - as it makes a difference seeing it as you noted.
What's ironic in all of the debates on Torah Observance is that many of those doing so act out of a desire to reach out to the Jewish people - seeking to make them jealous/help them come to salvation in the Messiah due to thinking they'll want to listen when they see Gentiles observing in the same ways as they do. And yet, although the desire for doing so may be noble, it is still problematic when all of that is accompanied by the continual denouncements from Messianic Gentiles toward other Messianic Gentiles whom they feel are either "too little" a Messianic or "less" of one.
And many Messianic Jews sit back noting that no attempts at observance were the focus of what would lead to them being won over to Messiah - or winning over their non-believing Jewish brothers/sisters - and they also noted that just because non-believing Jews wanted Gentiles ( doing things akin to conversion over to Judaism/becoming like the Jews ) doesn't mean it was a good thing in the end when Gentiles get so wrapped up in thinking "observance - who observes less than I" that they end up observing the wrong things...and forgetting that the REAL Goal of Messianic Judaism was reflected in simply proclaiming Christ the Messiah.
What the Messianic Jewish movement was originally about was on OUTREACH to the Jewish people - and although many Gentiles claim they seek to observe in order to win the hearts of Jews, I think they end up missing the mark due to not remembering what the founders of modern Messianic Judaism noted when it came to seeing what truly wins the Jewish people to Messiah - and that is promoting the Gospel of Yeshua/Christ to the world.

There were several good threads on the issue which I thought were good for reference (some which can be found if choosing to go here to #
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As said before elsewhere, with many Jewish families, the NT as you know bids Christians to provoke the Jews to religious jealousy. If interested, one of the Jewish believers I've kept up with did a rather interesting piece on what jealousy could be...and how it's possibly misunderstood. For more, here's the article by one who's an Eastern Catholic Jew (and who has worked with Messianic fellowships).....and to see what she said, one can go online/look it up under the following:
For the amount of Jewish people who are coming to Christ in droves from all kinds of backgrounds---be it in the U.S or Israel and other places globally--- it is interesting to see the developments.
What provoked/MADE them jealous was seeing the simple LOVE and POWER TO BE Delivered from bondages that made them realize how real Christ was. In example, when you're dealing with Crack-Cocaine addictions or caught in prostitution, it doesn't matter to many whether you're "Messianic" or not since they're looking to know whether or not someone truly loves them and can give them hope. To see the kind of love that Yeshua showed others who were often deemed untouchable by others in the Jewish religious leadership (Luke 14, Luke 15, Matthew 8, John 8, etc), it was his radical mindset toward interaction that got their attention.....and for many Jews who are agnostic, they're actually tired of much of the debates about what is or isn't "Jewish." They grew up in many differing camps of Judaism---and many times, though their parents/community were serious about what they believed, it simply wasn't something that they felt fulfillment in....till they came to fall in love with the Grace/Truth revealed in Christ (John 1).
The Gospel is what must be central....but, many Messianics don't even preach the Gospel. Rather, they're happy just "keeping" the Torah and "getting back to their roots" /comparing themselves with others on who is or isn't more observant - which is unwise according to Paul:
Romans 12:3 [ Serve God with Spiritual Gifts ] For I say, through the grace given to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a measure of faith.
Romans 12:2-4
There's little time for in-fighting within the Body of Messiah if we're to represent for the Lord - and many Messianics do themselves and the Body a disservice by always fighting amongst one another in who can or can't be dominant in voice when what matters is making the voice of the Messiah dominant. It'll always be the centrality of Christ - with any talk of observing Torah being secondary to that/connected with presenting His work on the Cross and via His Resurrection - that will truly show what Messianic Judaism is about...
One of the ladies in my fellowship who's Jewish had this experience with her mother - who sworn growing up she could never be a Christian since she was Jewish (and in her mind, to be Christian - as she had seen it growing up - meant that you had to reject being Jewish) - and on her deathbed, she had prayed/asked the Lord to reveal Himself to her....and she died in peace accepting that Christ was the Messiah. Amazing to see what went down - and that at the end of the day, it wasn't discussion on Torah alone that won her heart - or discussion on Jewish customs.
It was studying who the man known as Yeshua was all about - and that is what she needed to truly be Jewish as the Lord always intended.
Can you imagine what would've happened if the centrality of the Gospel was not kept central for many Jews who came to faith? The Body would be diminished - you'd not hear of others, for example, like the author of "Tortured for Christ" Rev.
Richard Wurmbrand (
who is known in differing Messianic Jewish circles due to how he spoke in them often as an international Messianic Jewish leader in the body, more
here and
here, #
231 /#
235 )...
I'm truly taken about by how many Jews noted that what brought them to YESHUA was seeing the love and compassion shown to them by believers. One Messianic Jew noted how he was challenged to dare trusting in Yeshua even though he used to say he didn't need that - as something simply wouldn't let him have peace in thinking only Gentiles needed to have Yeshua or that Gentiles were "crazy" for trusting in Christ.
For another example, I'm reminded of Rabbi Baruch Rubin - president of Messianic Jewish Communications and Rabbi of Emmanuel Messianic Jewish Congregation , both of Clarksville, Maryland. His story stands out to me when seeing what it was that impacted him to trusting Yeshua ..
and in his words (for brief excerpt):
One day, I had had enough. I went up to Loren (a tall Swede) and said, "What is it about you that makes you so blankety-blank' happy." (My speech was rather salty in those days.) Without blinking an eye, he said, "Your Messiah lives in my heart."
"What," I challenged, "is my Messiah doing living in your heart? And who is my Messiah, by the way, and what's he doing in your heart, anyway?" It was then that I learned the secret of Loren's peace. He told me that Jesus was my Messiah and that He lived in his heart (an expression that really sounded strange, especially when I thought about it literally). But he told me that Jesus was a Jew who came to the Jewish people to bring them back to God, and that he could do the same for me. None of it made any sense to me, but I was provoked to jealousy and later became a follower of the Messiah, too. How can you provoke your Jewish neighbor to jealousy? With your life, your love and your language. Loren's life reflected a calm that I hadn't seen anywhere around me. His love for me was sincere and I felt it. And his language was sensitive. He was willing to talk "my" language. If he had said he "knew Jesus Christ as his personal Lord and Savior," I would have said, "Well, that's good for you. You're a Christian. That's what you're supposed to do." But he stepped into my world by speaking about my Messiah. He used language that would get my attention and provoke me to jealousy.
Powerful!!!