woohoo the Turkish Getup was my lover today!!! She's a cruel mistress she is but I love her.
no way I could do it with 100 ibs
In essence, you're right. BUT if we look a little deeper, past the question, and to the reasons behind the question, it's likely that it isn't a question about their weight at all. They're looking for affirmation of their value as a human being. I know that that isn't typically how guys think, guys are usually "say what you mean" But from the female perspective, it's just a little insight, take it or leave it
Thanks! That's good advice.
I have a question though: Why exactly would a fat woman find any meaningful affirmation in being told something that she knows isn't true? If a 350-pound woman were to ask people, "Do you think I'm fat," and were told "no," would she really believe it?
Unless they want to be told, "Inner beauty and personality is what counts," but I don't think that's what they're really asking about?
I agree that she isn't so much asking to be made aware of her body, she's asking how someone feels about her. That being said I think that her self value is inseperably bound to her looks and her ability to be found physically attractive.
those are PEOPLE!!! PEOPLE!!! ..... not meatheads, you're so selfish and stuckup!!!
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if I have to date a fat girl who likes cupcakes for breakfast you have to date a meathead who spends an hour a day shaving and an hour posing and an hour tanning and wears a thong around the house and wants to pump you up.